Once u go black u never go back

lol Was kinda true for me...I've never been with a WM and never intend too. :smt023

 

really? never dated one? when did you find out that you were into black men? how old were you?

 

I use to think I was a lesbian, because although I was attracted to white women (and asian women lol) I was never attracted to any of the men around (all white and some asian men where I grew up). My friends would point out guys that they thought were "So f-ing HOT!!" and I'd think..."Are we looking at the same guy here? Do I need glasses or something?". Because I never found them attractive at all.

First time I realised I liked BM was at a nightclub and an African guy grabbed me and pulled me on the dance floor. OMG he was HOT and the kiss...oh boy...the KISS! *melts*
After that I realised there were gorgeous men everywhere that I had somehow neglected to see before. LOL All of them BM. Hahaha! Then I lost my virginity to a gorgeous african man and that was that. :smt003

As for age...I was in my twenties before I realised. Wished I'd figured it out sooner. LOL

 

when the brothas dont plan on sticking around and marrying then they eventually get the message and go look for stability

 

I really don't know what to say on this... I've never went white
Just went black and staying there if I can

 

I think that's a myth.You never know what kind of man you'll fall for,he may not be you're type at all.I had 2 bf,and both were the blond hair/blue eyes type,I didn't even thought that I may like a bm but it just happened.Of course that we all have our preferences but never say never.

 

Yeah um...no.
I've liked white guys since I started liking black guys. It's not a big deal. Like I mentioned before, I'm just more attracted to dark hair and dark eyes and whatnot, so I've never dated anyone blonde/blue eyed but the 'once you go black you never go back' thing doesn't apply to me.

 

You still feel that way?

 

interesting, if she doesnt date IR anymore why is she still on a website for IRs?

 

Why, indeed.

 

on the muslim thing, 150% against dating them, but its because my religion is against being unequally yoked, christian with non christian. If i were not a christian maybe i wouldnt mind, since it would not be an issue

 

I've only heard the phrase "Once u go black u never go back" here in the US and I've never thought it was true. In fact, many Western European(Belgian/French) women and girls have gone straight back to exclusively dating or marrying white men after they tried black men/guys.

It's usually because of a bad experience, after a relationship went bad etc, those women often say they will not date or marry a black man again, especially if he is African.

I've met a few of those women and girls who liked to go on a tirade about how bad African men were, complaining about their over-extended African hospitality and different family values getting in the way of the relationship etc. I could understand when the culture shock is used, but when they say things like black men are liars, cheaters, etc, I just dismiss it as being another silly emotional point of view.

So I've always said that liking a guy just because he is black was a prejudice of color, just like not wanting to date more black guys because of one guy who was jerk would be a prejudice of color. It has the subtext that those African men are inherently bad and thus can't be dated or married and that these kind of women strongly believe that or they just can't accept that they just had one bad apple that wasn't really into them in the first place.

On the other hand, I've met plenty of girls who exclusively dated black men though they never said blatantly or even implied it was because that "Once u go black u never go back". I like to call these women the "Negrophiles".

 

O, is that what you call them?

You should patent that.

 

She's already explained that, didn't you Mosk?

 

i went Burnt Sienna, but then went back

TRUE STORY

 

She did?

 

I already have

 

I really don't need to know.

 

Then why comment in the first place! pffftt.

 

Never stopped you.