I came to this after hearing how alot of white pornstars who has made it to the top by putting themselves on with black men in other words using black men to gain more fame or get their fame back by making wm jealous and wish they were back to white. Janine Lindenmulder is the latest to have done that. That brought me to this question: Do alot of these famous ww use bm like 70% of white musicians use hip hop/R&B/Soul to put themselves on (Black music). Example of that is "Pink". Have you ever notice the ratio of BM who get rich&famous who date ww compared to ww who get rich&famous. It made me think who is chasing who? I think we are(BM). I think the best kind of white women to date would be non famous females if I were to throw any recommendations out. It happens the same way in the movies: Julia Stiles wasn't known until she came out with Save the last dance and "O", Reese Witherspoon made that interracial film in a before she was a big star way, Christina Agueliera said she never dated whiteboys a while ago ya'll know the end of that story. So I ask Do you think like I think that Upperclass ww you have to approach differently or let them come to you whether dating, casting in a t.v. show or movie, etc. for fear of the humiliation of being used and played.
Of course alot but not all ww might use a brotha to get ahead and then go back once they get to a nice spot. It's human nature.
Add Spring Thomas to that. Actually, this one works both ways. Here's why; American popular music always has been produced by blacks and always will be. From country to hip-hop, always been created by black folks. So i see it more as taking advantage of a genre that is widely popular, which also happens to be made by blacks. I have, and its pervasively unproportional. Always has been and always will be. And the reason is because black men have nothing to lose in an IR relationship as we are discriminated against anyway. Gee, you think? Personally, i ain't chasing no white women (or any women for that matter) but i see your point. I would not use the word "best" but i know quite what you mean. Ne'er really was a big fan of either, so it doesn't really matter. They aren't by anyway means ugly or untalented, but they aren't the hottest things out there in any respect. Now here's where i disagree. For the most part, women are all the same in that you've got to approach them in a very discreet but firm way. That includes upper class white women. And man, i have to admit it to you but you're buying into the myth that "classy" white women want nothing to do with black men. Your tone says it all. Truth be told, many elite/upper class white women have dated black men. Heidi Klum, Virginia Thomas, the mother of Barack Obama ec. See, they're no different. Thing is, you can't let it be obvious when approaching a woman because that's when she'd reject your ass. You'd seem desperate. The ulterior motives of women, regardless of race, are plentiful and so you've got to take your time to find them out.
I get where you are headed with this, but one woman and her off comments made me say this part and that is lindsey lohan when she got cocky and said "Black men love me" then turned around and said she loves eminem in the same sentence, clearly letting it be known that she is dillusional in thinking that (This is me mocking her.) "All these bm want me but can't have me."
I get where you're coming from and I think you have a point. However, I wouldn't even sweat it. I feel like I'm confident in myself as a MAN, period, seperate from my race so if a WW wouldn't want to be with me so what. I'll find a better WW who has enough sense to recognize..lol :lol:
Hey Im the same way I don't sweat it at all. I just hate to see it go down with brothas that do. I give a shake my head and put my head down kind of feeling on that you know what I mean?
