Older and Younger

As an older black Man who dates interracially, I am fining it difficult to find women (Hispanic and or White Women in the 46-70) close and near my age group to date.

Any thoughts about Older dating younger and vice-versa.

 

You have said you are "older" now a couple of times. How old are you??

 

Where do you meet the women you have dated? The job, grocery store, gym, church or club/lounge?

 

they're out there. I'd ask how/where are you looking?

 

There are many out there! Depends on what you are really looking for and what your parameters are.

There are lots of older women who are dating IR or want to. I have women asking me all the time how to meet Black men ...as if I have a basement full of them or something. Seems to be more of a problem of there are lots of men available and lots of women available but they some how aren't connecting.

I'm sure you realize that women in that age range are more likely to wait for a man to approach and expect more courting type behavior if they are looking for a relationship.

You have to go to where ww are. I mean it's sortof like how women will complain about never meeting men but they are going to places men aren't interested in.

 

How Old Am I

I am 63

 

Get your money up pops.

 

When you are in that age group there seems to be a split in what people are doing. I have a friend who's 62 and he meets tons of women on cruises. He doesn't have to do a thing, they are all approaching him. He's very short, he has a great smile, and he's cute. He looks his age. So, it's not like he's a tall, built, younger looking guy.

Alot of the women on those cruises are just looking to play/experiment. But he's had a few that really chased him hard and he dated for years too.

I'll be really straight with you in saying that many women who are 46+ are concerned about older men being able to get going and keep going in bed. Then there are those women who aren't into it at all and prefer you can't or are not interested.

You'll do better if you can dance well too.

There are all sorts of different groups on meetup.com Often, they are mostly middle age/older ww showing up to events and they want more men going.

Then there are all the Christian singles groups that seem to have tons of middle age/older white women. Often they are dances, dinners, or day trips.

There is also the dating site for people over 50. It's a pay site, I believe.

I think trying to drop all the way down into 46 age range you may be pushing it...unless you have something really exceptional going on.

Are you one of the new ones who was talking about only being into thin/athletic women? If so, you are going to have a tougher time too. In that case, you may want to try to stick to the groups that are centered around marathons, working out, etc.