No ordinary love....

A lot has gone on with me, during my sabbaticals with the site, and a lot has gone on with my love life. I found a job I like and found a girl.

Now I'm currently in a long distance relationship with a mother of two(She is white, hence me putting this information on this website). She's 23 like me, and she's a terrific person. I fell in love with her and I am going to travel to see her. I live in New Jersey, and she lives in Ohio, which is a state away from me. I'm leaving next week.

I've been in this relationship for about a year, and she's been the kindest person I've ever met. She was there for me in a sense. Not physically obviously, but she's given me the positive energy I've needed to get through the tougher times. This woman is an inspiration to me, and I love her dearly. I took the time off work and I am taking a train out to see her next week. My family thinks I'm crazy, her family thinks she's crazy, But i don't care. I'm going to see the woman I love.
And that's about it.

 

Good luck Sonny. Enjoy your visit.

 

That's great for you Sonny, my best wishes accompany you!

 

Best wishes Sonny. Don't worry about what your family or her's thinks, just do what you think is right. I know there's some hesitance when you're talking about meeting someone for the first time, but if you have a year behind you and you love each other, go for it. It's not like either of you is sneaking off and not telling anyone where you're going, you've been open about it, so I don't see why you shouldn't pursue something you think could be great.

 

Good to see you again! Congrats on finding love and best of luck as you pursue this relationship!

 

Good luck fam. Love is definitely in the air.

 

why do they think you are crazy ?


I did a long distance relationship for about three years but i ended it because it ran its course. it was great but it is what it is.

 

Bro, I hope the very best for you. When true love comes one's way you seize it because you will never know when it will cross your path again. Take care in your travel.

 

. I think maybe if she was a divorced woman with children I think I could take it. But a woman...

...twice knocked up,

...at 23

...and single

...HOLD UP!

...just SCREAMS an inability to make wise choices.

...at the very least the intelligence to use a condom.

...and if it was two kids, with two different father. DEAL BREAKER!

Add to that, and she's meeting men on the internet (with two young children) which shows her priorities are STILL fucked up.

....which by extension transfers to you, and your ability (or lack of) to make wise choices.

....which might be the reason why folk think you are crazy.

 

follow your heart, may you find what you are seeking...I can tell you were smiling as you typed your post, much happiness to you Sonny & try not to worry about your families. after all, you're both adults...

 

Well good for you man. Whatever makes you happy.

Personally, the fact that she is only 23 and already has 2 kids would raise some red flags but thats just me.

 

I am sorry you misunderstood me if you cant tell whether or not I am judging her, let me be clearer...

..I AM judging her...and him for that matter.

We are judged by our actions.

- And 23 years old
- Single
- two young children
- dating
- on the internet

....is proof positive that this KID has had (past and present) her priorities fucked up, and has developed a CLEAR track record of making unwise choices. Who you allow into your life says more about YOU then it says about THEM, and the fact that this is the child he chose speaks volume about him.

Dude bout read to put miles on the Pace to go and be some child's meal ticket.


And rather all of that has been addressed is irrelevant. I know being a woman who has allowed her self to be used as an incubator is IN STYLE now. I get that, but doesn't make it right.

 

It's not your place to judge her, him, or anyone else for that matter. You can comment all you want but you aren't in any position to pass judgment on anyone.

If Sonny's happy with her, good for him, and it's no one business but his whether he meets her or not. Personally I wouldn't allow my family to have input on this type of thing, so I certainly wouldn't take advice from strangers. I think he meant this as a 'here's what I've been up to' type post, not a 'do y'all think I'm crazy' type post anyway.

 

i'm so so so happy for you & wish you all the best sonny...!!!! :heart:

 

Good luck Sonny, I hope you have a wonderful time. Your family and hers will come around eventually if you're happy.

 

Who are you to judge that its not my place to judge. I am sure what I think is really irrelevant in the grand scheme of things. But he posted his little tale here...and I commented on it.

ahhhh, the PC retort is "no one should judge" which is utter bullshit. We judge, all of us......every single one of us, including you...we all judge.

 

Based on what he wrote there are a few things I do know (unless he made them up or lied) which I don't believe.

1. she's 23
2. she has two children
3. her children are young
3. she's not married
4. she's dating.

...this is what he posted
...and this is what I commented on

....and at 23, she's not grown...she's just an older child. Who am I? Just a cat responding to a thread that was posted.

...and IMO his family is right.

that's really the long and short of it. At 23 years old with young children her concentration SHOULD be on raising her children, NOT on finding new cock a state away.