Need 2 Know, How to Tell if white girl goes for black man

Is there any way to tell if a white girl goes for a black guy, because I do not feel much confortable to approach a white woman unless I know at least 75% positive she goes for black. Is it body language, way they dress, or hat music they listen to, I know the white girl with corn row or weave and wear ghetto fabulous clothe, goes for black, NEED YOUR ADVICE, THANK YOU!

 

Forget what she's wearing, does she look at you cheekily from the corner of her eye, give you a flirtatious smile or play with her hair when she sees you?

Black-men-lovers come in all shapes and sizes, but flirtation is universal.

 

thank you Mistress B,

well I try to focus with the behaviors, but it is hard because so many white girl can be friendly and outgoing, even if they do not that interest in black.

I also try to hide that I find a certain white woman attractive, like not smiling, or not staring more than 1 second, so I don't think that helps!

 

Not much...the braver man is more likely to make a quick conquest. But you can't do a lot wrong with just being friendly, at least the girl will get a chance to get to know you, and that's what matters.

 

A few more tips...if she looks at your lips or groin area she finds you sexually attractive. If she's copying your body language she's into you and if she licks her lips when looking at you then you're well in there! Also, if her pupils dilate she's trying to take as much of you in as she can, she likes what she sees!

 

I thought licklipping was just me... :lol: it's right though, I will look at lips and groin on attractive men, or at least try to catch their eye for a few moments longer, nothing like a sizzling look between the two of you!

All that being said, when I first met my bloke I didn't look at him that much: I thought he was gorgeous but out of my league and didn't want to make a fool of myself by staring at what i couldn't have!

 

I want to know if there's a way to tell just if you look at her, without talking to her,

Like, one white girl i dated, I would have not know she was interest in me until she ASKED me out. she never had flirtatious look, but still she was very friendly, and friendly to everybody, so i couldn't tell. my friend told me his opinion, that she didn't look like the white girl that would date a black guy. i had to agree with him....

 

"All that being said, when I first met my bloke I didn't look at him that much: I thought he was gorgeous but out of my league and didn't want to make a fool of myself by staring at what i couldn't have"

I FEEL THAT SAME WAY!

 

I used to feel just how you feel sengo. It is hard knowing if ANY girl is into you, white or black. I have made the mistake in the past of thinking that a girl who is friendly and smiles and even slightly flirtatious was INTO me. And I have been wrong many times before when making that assumption. Rejection sucks but as a man you have to deal with it and get used to it and not be afraid of it, otherwise you will never get with a girl.

Sometimes it isn't obvious she likes you, sometimes it is. All the examples people have given you are true and are pretty much common sense. Licking her lips, playing with her hair, crossing her legs toward you, touching you or your clothes for no reason other than she wants to, her hugging you, playing with your hair or your body, catching her staring at you, seeing her looking at your lips or crotch area. All that. Also if a white chick is talking, walking, dressing, and acting hip hop or ghetto then it is clear she is into black guys.

It seems to me you are into the "plain Jane" white girls or you would not be asking this question about how to detect if a white girl is into black fellas. These typical plain white chicks, ones that most would expect aren't into black guys, but you hope they are, are weird to figure out. Some are racist and would NEVER touch a black guy in that way, and some are open to it, but he must be a CERTAIN type of black guy (maybe a bad boy, maybe athletic, maybe sweet and romantic and classy so she can take him home to mom and dad, etc.).

I feel ya man, I love them too. You just gotta approach them and get to know them. Maybe they will make the move, and maybe you will have to. If she rejects you or says she isn't into you, then she just isn't into you (and it could be several reasons, maybe she is racist, maybe she is not into YOU personally, maybe she's a lesbian, whatever!).

If you want to you can use one of my techniques (and I NEVER give my secrets away so feel lucky). You see a chick you like and stand afar but within her field of vision. Look at her until she sees you looking at her. One of three things can happen. One is she can never look back (meaning she's not into you or is involved in a really interesting conversation and is too busy to visually flirt with you). Two is she can look back and give a mean look or even move somewhere else (meaning she is FOR SURE not into you staring at her). Three is she can look back and smile or look back and give you a "hmm what you lookin at, come talk to me" stare (this is always good, it means she is interested). Try it sometime. Just be fearless and go for it man. That's what I do. Jump in that white girl water, it's cold at first but it gets warm fast! LOL

 

One of my techniques is to brush past the girl and she will most likely strike up conversation. It has never failed for me. But if you do it wrong then there will be problems.

 

I once had a bm do that - but he walked right into me and said "Oh sorry" then later proceeded to ask if he could come shopping with me!!!

 

Thats the wrong way to do it.

 

You're telling me! It later turned out that he was a loon.

 

yeah peyback, if only they came with an invisible stamp on their forehead that showed their preference. the rejection is actually the easy part. but now have to see her again and again (like at work or at school) is the part i would not like at all!

 

They must teach that one in school, that's how my man made it clear he liked me also. :lol:

 

AS well as preference, some indication of whether people are available or not would be good...I've always thought that people should have a traffic light on them. Red = spoken for and happy. Orange = spoken for but willing to stray if the right person came along. Green = good to go BABY! 8)

 

LOL good one. But what i hate is when a girl flirts with you and waits weeks to mention she is dating someone. Some people say you should have asked her but i hate asking a girl if she has a boyfriend because she will automatically think I like her then. I like to wait until it comes up through conversation. Ya know like, oh who ya goin with your boyfriend? Or, is your boyfriend going with you? And if she doesn't have one she will say so.

 

you probably messed up because you were so anxious, and came on to strong. you can't run at them soon as you think they like you. you have to slide into it sometimes with these girls. you roll into it to fast they gonna think something up. look at the movie 40 year old virgin. now if you were more smooth you probably could have been into those draws.

 

There is a lot of good advice written in this discussion, even from Pey, who isn't a white woman, so I will just nod my head in agreement with the advice given to you, and just leave it at that.

Edit: By the way, maybe it's just me and my karma, but everywhere I go in my town (library, bookstore, mall, doctors' office,etc.) I see cute women ALL THE TIME, and at least over a dozen in a day, but since I don't have the kind of time I would need to flirt with them all :lol: I usually keep on my way. I HAVE talked with some, but haven't always hooked up with them...

in fact, while I am writing this very message, I'm actually looking at some of them. :lol: Cheers.

 

YEAH, some days I know exactly what that's like!