As a "brown" man, I can tell you that I'm still learning about my body and sex overall, as I've had few partners over my lifetime (personal choice, etc.) I'm still learning the "art of sex", and have been thoroughly impressed by my new abilities (such as making someone orgasm vaginally). However, I realize that many women expect men to be studs, and it shouldn't be that way. Women should be more open-minded to the fact that sex is a mutual action, and should be a shared activity. If a man isn't meeting a woman's needs (this is only because of her experiences with past lovers), then she needs to open her mouth and communicate what she desires. It's also equally important that a woman actually participates, rather than waiting for the man to do everything.
I agree.Communication can do a lot when it comes to sex.Every person has different likes and dislikes in the bedroom or any location to get intimate at.Sometimes we're lucky and meet someone who just does everything we like but that's usually not the case.Then it's on us to talk about our fantasies and likes.
