My little Sister

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by dark_noir, Dec 3, 2005.

  1. dark_noir

    dark_noir Restricted

    I had no clue that so many non black men were after black women but my little sister is being chased by every race under the sun. I brought her to my job last Friday to pick up my check before going to lunch and on Monday three of the guys I work with was asking about her. Pissed me off a bit. One guy I would of never thought would of tried to get at my sister because he is Mr. Abocrombie or however you spell it. Another was the East Indian nerd dude in IT who is annoying as hell. So I called her up and informed her about these fools and she laughs and tells me that she gets hit on by white/asian/latin/indian men a lot and that I should not be surprised. Well I guess I have been in the dark ages when it comes to the sistas being chased by other races. I guess this world is destined to be a real melting pot.
     
  2. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

    You've been under a rock..

    Everybody has been fuckin sisters for centuries..
     
  3. ghostgyrl

    ghostgyrl New Member

    True that,
    but nowadays it is more open without stigma...my mixed daughters (15 & 17) and my black girlfriends are always approached by all kinds of different guys. My oldest daughter, since she started dating last year, has dated 4 guys and only 1 was black. She says she likes all guy's no discrimination, but she prefers white guy's. And she will state that to you with NO EXPLANATION......
    Times are a changing :wink:
     
  4. flaminghetero

    flaminghetero Well-Known Member

    Would you feel the same way if your son didn't date white girls?
     
  5. sunstorm

    sunstorm New Member

    Question is, are they respecting them, or just after what they think will be "easy pussy"?

    Make sure your little sister demands respect from these guys, rather than be caught up in the "flattery" of it all... Unfortunately, a lot of these guys will fuck a bw, but wouldn't dream of "insulting their parents" by marrying one... East Indians being a prime example.

    Other than that, it's all good. BW being more desired is good for black people in general, as long as they're not the type of bw who try to use their choice to demoralize or antagonize bm. (<---Had to get that in there, because frankly too many bw don't seem to be able to mix without still holding bm right smack dab in the center of their consciousness as a target of spite... They think they're hurting bm, but they're really a burden on black people in general -- including bw -- by contributing to alienation betw/ bm & bw...)

    ---

    As long as they show class, it's all good...
     
  6. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Men of other ethnicities have been chasing black chicks forever, not to mention sexually assaulting and raping them...

    but, like ghostgyrl said, it's not as stigmatized as it used to be, however, something tells me that you better watch your sister's back. These dorks you described seem to be a little over-eagered and overconfident.
     
  7. charmer

    charmer Member

    It sounds like normal behavoir to me. If a good looking girl walked into my office as a stranger, I would be curious and eager to talk to her too.
     
  8. tonytony

    tonytony New Member

    so true
     
  9. ghostgyrl

    ghostgyrl New Member

    Flaminghetero:
    To answer your flaming question, my son has dated all types of girls....
    and dig this....at first he only was approached by white or latina girls and he thought that is what he preferred, but being 18 and getting out on more dates with all kinds of girls, he has stated he now prefers his 5'10" beautiful dark brown skin girlfriend of 6 months. But he said "my girlfriend" not my black girlfriend. This is not a issue for him.....
    I have NO PROBLEM with that, I raised my son to love all women
    And him being mixed has never been a issue with any of the girls he dated, since he carries himself with respect.....I've meet every parent of every girl he has dated, unless they hid it well, I never felt any negativity.
     
  10. LaydeezmanCris

    LaydeezmanCris New Member

    That is very correct. I dont mean to turn this into a race debate but reality check, here's where the bm/ww concept comes in. A lot of black/white relationships seem are derived from high criteria and motives if its a bm/ww. By this, i mean that white women, AT LEAST FROM MY EXPERIENCE, are more tolerating than white men. Why do i say this? Simple.. because white women are much more willing to seek someone whom they love and if he happens to be black, they tend to let it be. But i am very sure im not lying if i say the majority of white men arent ready to "defy their parents" if you know where im going.
     
  11. tuckerreed

    tuckerreed New Member

    the BIGGER QUESTION IS, WHAT IS THIS WEBSITE CALLED? IS IT , BLACK WOMEN AND WHITE MEN OR IS IT STILL WHITE WOMEN AND BLACK MEN?

    IF THIS GUY HAS BEEN CLUELESS THAT WHITE MEN AND BLACK WOMEN HAVE BEEN PUBLICLY GETTING TOGETHER FOR A VERY LONG TIME--PERHAPS LOS ANGELES IS NOT AS OPEN AND PROGRESS AS THE EAST COAST WHERE THAT STUFF HAS BEEN GOING ON SINCE THE 1960s.

    AGAIN THIS IS WWW.WHITEWOMENBLACKMEN.COM THERE ARE OTHER SITES FOR SISTAHS AND WHITE DUDES.
     
  12. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    You never know what someone else is really thinking behind their words...

    and, being eager is not the same as simply being horny.

    I'll just leave it at that.
     

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