My grandmother has continued to threaten me!!

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by NCBradin, Aug 8, 2009.

  1. NCBradin

    NCBradin New Member

    This is where I've reached the great rage of my limit when it comes to my grandmother! She will never stop threaten me whatever she likes to do so, I keep on asking her to stop making those threatening! She doesn't care if I'm adult or not...

    She pushed me away even more deeper than before. Knowing this, I've had it with her! I gave her too many chances to working out with me, but she choose to keep down that path where she stuck in the past. Also she said herself that this new cat of mine, she declare that it's belong to her! She's far more crazy than I thought, because I really love new cat of mine so much.

    Here's the quotes of her saying:

    I hate it when she called former name of mine! I'm tired and sick of all of this shit when she treats me like garbage when it comes to this stupid fighting. She always thinks that I'm playing games with her.

    For love of god, I'm almost 25 years old. I vowed that earlier this year, I wouldn't let my family put me through like that again. Thus far, I haven't been able to grow up into powerful man like George Lucas or JJ Abrmas!

    To be honest with you; she intentionally interrupts my journey to reach the cross line to finish it! You see, I've been working on my scripts for months and she comes to me and asking me to taking a break! I told her that I said no to her. She threaten to call phone company to have it turned off for good. She forgets that this is my dream to becoming head writer and executive producer after moving to California in later years!

    Worse still, she told me that if I didn't shave my beard off, I wouldn't be able to go to see my doctors or going to public places that I'd like to go. How immature is she! There are many lists of my journeys that I wants to finishing it up. Now I feel like I've been hit off with roadblock off my journey.

    Now I realized that it's time for me to go on the journey alone myself. That is, I have to cut her out of my life for good. She's useless to help me to finish the journey now.

    What should I do? I'm not ready to learn to live on my own, but I will have to do. Hoping that you guys will help me with this craziness that I've been putting through!
     
  2. Athena

    Athena New Member

    She forgets that this is my dream to becoming head writer and executive producer after moving to California in later years!

    Worse still, she told me that if I didn't shave my beard off, I wouldn't be able to go to see my doctors or going to public places that I'd like to go. How immature is she! There are many lists of my journeys that I wants to finishing it up. Now I feel like I've been hit off with roadblock off my journey.

    Now I realized that it's time for me to go on the journey alone myself. That is, I have to cut her out of my life for good. She's useless to help me to finish the journey now.

    What should I do? I'm not ready to learn to live on my own, but I will have to do. Hoping that you guys will help me with this craziness that I've been putting through!

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    NC, I am just going to lay it out there with no sugar coating. Your post has two sides to it, one you desire respect or at least want to be treated like an adult yet two, you have admitted that you are not ready to live on your own. You'd mentioned that you are 24 years old, that's about 7 years later than I moved out from home, joined the military and had my own life. It's time you did the same.

    If you truly want to be a powerful man and pursue your dreams, you need to start living like a man and get out there! Get some life experience which will also help you with your writing.

    NC, you seem like a nice person based on your posts but to truly follow the dreams you've mentioned in those posts, you need to live your own life, be responsible for yourself and become that powerful man....

    Good luck :)
     
  3. robina

    robina New Member

    bradin, im sorry your having problems with your granmother

    im with athena, u say you want treating like an adult, want to do your own thing, u need to go your journey alone now but your not ready to learn to live alone?

    hun i left home at 18 and have lived that way ever since. you just have to work out what your budget is then try to live within it, can be scary at first but you will get the hang of it ( maybe get a room mate or find a room to rent in a shared house )

    yes there are things you will have to learn along the way but you can live your life the way you want to, do the things you like
     
  4. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

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