My friend is an IR relationship and my friends girlfriend, said, the "N" word...

Hi, Im President Barack Obama and I approve the following message

 

LOL

Some ideas to move forward:
* She has an issue with race - work with her
* Tell her how you feel, so she can emasculate you in the future
* Let her go - she disses in private, imagine what is going on in publics
* Be manish in the relationship, be first, in everything, her "background" is second nature, she might fall into line.
* Don't look at her as an equal, look at her as subpar. Don't treat her with equity because its going to her head.
* See where her mind is - she might have external influences, escpecially if its out the blue...