Move out of the Hood, or no?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Hellspawn, May 9, 2011.

  1. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    well i live on the nicest block in the entire neighborhood...surrounded by section 8 houses and apartments...this doesn't compare to living in the hood...it is living in the hood:smt096
     
  2. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Umm....

    ...sure

    ...its often why I say many whites truly are oblivious. Sometimes when you just don't get it, you should just sit on your hands, smile, nod....and say nothing. (in this case type nothing)

    Next thing you are going to tell me is "I'm just like black people, I'm poor too"
     
  3. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    Ah, the hood, sweet hood. The same dudes hanging out in front of the projects all day, no respect for property with all the tagging and graffiti and dirty buildings, the usual ghetto fights with a group of people attacking 1 person and of course gunshots at night.

    LOL, my grandfather used to work for the New York City Housing Authority and he would always complain about the tenants to his supervisors, well one day someone got fed up and threw a bucket of piss on to him through a window of one of the apartments. That's the hood for you.

    I knew all I needed to know when the second day I was in America and saw a dude with a gun in his hand chasing another man, this was summer 1992, a few days later I heard the same guy with the gun was killed.

    Its called the ghetto for a reason, nothing good about that term in any culture or language.
     
  4. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    ah shit. its about to get good up in here
     
  5. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    never said i was poor...never said i was like black people...just told you that we live in the hood...you don't have to believe me...but why would i tell you that if it wasn't true...i can tell you this if you lived in my city and they offered you a free house in my neighborhood you would turn it down because you seem to think living in the burbs is better for your kids...you would never let them interact with the kids in my neighborhood...you are what people around my neighborhood call a boojie black man...and not in a good way...they would think you were a snob not necessarily an accomplished black man that is humble but one that thinks he is better than everyone else...your motorcycle would last about 5 minutes in my neighborhood...bring it on over but plan on walking home
     
  6. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Hey I just learned that "section 8" is the hood.

    New Motto

    "WWBM.com Education Never Stops"
     
  7. TERRASTAR18

    TERRASTAR18 Well-Known Member

    as someone, who has grown up in the so-called "hood" and and earlier in my life grew up in a nicer mixed area, i can tell you, any situation is what you make it. in the hood, i met many ppl, there was more interaction and more activity. going to public school, there were no outsiders, everyone had a friend. growing up in the hood, you are close to ppl who are like you, so you have a better self-awareness, so where ever you go you carry a confidence that i'm not sure you get anywhere else.

    as far as crime goes, it's no worse than anywhere else. same thing with drugs. it's just highlighted in the black community to justify the abusive police force's actions. drugs were put in this community in many outright criminal ways, with the full backing of the us government(just remember iran-contra).
    considering these hardships, most recently the sub-loan mortage crisis, which was for all intents and purposes, an attack on the black community, ppl in the hood have shown great resilence. its that resilence that creates the ambition to achieve..
     
  8. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member


    lippy realizes that YOU live in a bubble and can only grasp your own surroundings so it would never occur to you that pretty much every major city has a "hood" or a "getto" or a bad side of town...just because it doesn't look like the ONLY thing you know does not mean that everyone else is wrong and YOU are right...

    damn you have to be one of the most annoying man...EVER
     
  9. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    I'm glad you could, too. Why is downtown so bad? I'm talking Old Louisville - lived there for a couple of years and it only made stronger. Same with where I'm living now in Germantown - it's made me stronger still, so much that Old Louisville seems like a walk in the park (and like you said, the Police Station is RIGHT THERE in the park lol). Maybe I'll feel different after I've been mugged and raped a couple of times...:smt012

    So far I have been able to run them off with my mouth or by pretending to be a foreigner.

    I can't afford to buy a house, so I like to live in the biggest oldest building I can find within running distance from a police station lol. Better get back on the treadmill at the Y cuz Lord know a lady really shouldn't run by herself in this neighborhood haha.
     
  10. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    ARE YOU SERIOUS?!?! YOU ARE SHITTING ME! NOW WAY

    SAY IT AIN'T SO. WAIT...you mean to tell me...that every major city has a bad part of town.

    HOLY COW...WHY DIDN'T ANYONE TELL ME?!?!?!?!


    I try, I try, You aren't going to tell me you feel sorry for my children are you? ha ha ha ha
     
  11. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    lol....

    When I was coming up Old Louisville was really really nice, but its not that way not. In fact it one of the most violent places in Louisville, THAT is why they put the police Station there....its centrally located You got Jefferson, Hill street.....down the road near YPAS. Woooo...as a matter of fact that is the reason why Old Louisville had gone down. The ONLY Owners that stay do so because of the historic value and most are old.....most of moved out to Bardstown, Jeffersonville and other places. Central Park is VIOLENT...(no seriously its pretty bad).

    Don't even joke about that babe...

    Next time I'm home I'll run you :) mmhmm...sure will.
     
  12. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member


    lippy is covering her ears...lalalalalalalalalalalalalalalalala i can't hear him...lalalalalalalalalala...i don't want to listen anymore....lalalalalalalalalalal

    awww now i feel better...piano keys it is:smt005
     
  13. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    You know you want me....just admit it. Are you a load moaner?
     
  14. saintaugusta

    saintaugusta New Member

    Well it DID make me stronger, no need to lol. You should have met me before - you couldn't have said boo to me in daylight without me screaming bloody murder.

    But I do always feel safer with a strong black man beside me, that's for damn sure. Thanks for the offer - I'll keep it in mind ;D.
     
    Last edited: May 10, 2011
  15. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    lol
     
  16. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member

    LOL,aww, the thing I learned growing up in the hood is,

    Go about your business
    Keep a mean mug on your face
    Don't linger around like its a chill spot
    Oh and did I mention, keep a mean mug on your face
    Stay away from any illegal activity like drugs, etc.

    and it is what it is.
     
  17. jaisee

    jaisee Well-Known Member

    It takes a stupid mutha fucka to have the means to get out, but opt to stay IN the hood.
     
  18. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    hmmm, that must mean that revitalization is just a white thing

    wow...just wow:roll:
     
  19. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I grew up poor as dirt in some pretty shitty & rough neighborhoods & I was always determined as hell to get out of there as soon as I was able. I made some pretty big goofs trying to get that point, but I never gave up.

    It wasn't easy growing up...we had nothing, my dad was an over-the-road trucker & was hardly ever around until I was in high school. I was the oldest of 5 kids & the only girl & my mama worked me like a dog...she depended on me a lot which was hard on me, but I learned how to work because of it. She also took in ironing & babysat so we could get by. Sometimes I'd do odd jobs for the elderly landlord & his wife for a little bit of money, which I typically handed over to my mama so we could eat.

    After I got pregnant with my son at 19 (becoming a damned statistic), not finishing college, moving back in with my parents & going through a ton of struggles after my son was born, I busted my ass to get the hell out of the hell hole I was stuck in. I now own my own home in a good, safe neighborhood & I'm very thankful for it.
     
  20. Iggy

    Iggy Banned

    Good for you! Shows that hard work definitely pays off
     

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