I have known blk folks who have been there and they seem to echo the same thing you're saying. Btw, how are you able to afford all these trips? and also able to speak lingua franca very well? are your folks loaded?
Thanks guys, thought I was losing it. I realize she isn't platinum blonde, but I'd still consider her blonde, and of course she's beautiful... inside and out.
I wouldn't expect any of these WW to necessarily like BM. Shit, I don't expect it here in the US. You get what you can and you make due, no matter where you are.
You're right. My fault! It depends on the pic. I remember it looked brown when she went to some fancy thing and other times, it appears lighter. I never considered her blonde though.
Horse shit. I have cousins in sweden, denmark, england, norway, france, holland balgium and germany; and based on the photos they send, they are mack daddies over there. So dont hate the players.......change your game
Yes, but American girls are much easier to get to, and there is no comparision in sheer numbers, the country is huge, you have a lot more girls to choose from.
I don't think anyone should 'expect' anything from another human being, other than to be treated like one. That's right up there with people who say they're 'entitled' to this or that... you aren't... deal with it. However I also don't think you should assume any particular WW doesn't like BM, and certainly you shouldn't assume an entire country doesn't. You never know unless you ask them.
Careful there, you're straying dangerously close to 'back your shit up' territory if you are implying American woman are easy.
If he does, will you shut the fuck up? Doubt it. You'll probably just say, "Oh, they were in that one town that just happens to not welcome black/white Swedish couple".
Im not gonna get onto it w you cuz your slinging mud in so many directions... Swedes are reserved and aloof at first glance (sorta like Seattleites).. it takes a while for us to open up - in general - once we do, we are really warm and genuine people that will be your friend forver. I dont get your label as "arrogant", Swedes are not stuck up or arrogant (broad statements like that dont work clearly some are..but its certainly not a national trait) ... but culturally we are primed with careful and slow approcahes for the most part.. if someone goes at it as here in the US or Southern Europe, it may be met with suspision especially if said Swede has not travelled outside. I think you took reserved as arrogant, thats all. If they dont know you, you cant just walk up and chat.. if I remember correctly, I think some of the men that have been there had a strategy to chat w Swedish wonen that worked. Hopefully they can chime in. Clearly there is racism in Sweden (and the rest of Scandinavia) but substantially less than in most part of Europe. The racism is religion based and not color based - I dont say its better, its just is. American black men would not have any problem at all to get interrest from Swedish women, and there are several men on here that can attest to that. I dont see why they would not like you then. Maybe you were percieved as arrogant yourself, just sayen. The West Coast is very different from the East Coast (Im from Stockholm, a very multiculutral city) and your trip by all means does not make you an expert, you have to travel around and spend time there...like anywhere else in the world. For the record, Danes, Swedes and Norwegians are Germanic and pretty much identical in personality for the sake of this debate with Danes being a tad bit more continental. Finns are Slavic, and have a more brooding personality Finland is generally xenophobic with very restrictive immigrant laws with Helsinkki being the exception at least a bit. Estonia is not a Nordic country. Nordic countries: Iceland, Norway, Sweden, Denmark and Finland. Scandinavia - Iceland, Norway, Sweden, Denmark