Morgan Freeman Cheats on Wife with White Mistress

Discussion in 'Celebrity WW/BM Couples' started by biclighter, Aug 6, 2008.

  1. KnCA

    KnCA New Member

    thank you!

    It always amazes me at how quickly things are made into facts when we really don't know.

    And in regards to the others who posted comments about marriage and cheating....such crap! The idea that ALL cheat is just ridiculous. And just because someone left a marriage of many years does not mean that there was any cheating going on either. There seems to be this idea out there that no one has any morals, values, or integrity any more. This is a VERY skewed view.
     
  2. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    You'd really be surprised at who you think would NEVER cheat on thier significant other. I'm not saying they all do, but about 98.5% of people cheat. I used to think that nobody cheated and that marriage was holy and sacred, then reality hit.
     
  3. KnCA

    KnCA New Member

    I certainly don't think that "nobody" cheats. 98.5% is quite extreme and not realistic. While you talk about being surprised by who has cheated...you might be quite surprised at who has not.
     
  4. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    So what u think about the number of married or involved women that cheat? Lol
     
  5. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    I think 98.5% is way too high. Maybe that is the number of people who THINK about cheating!
    People think about it but many of us would never do it. I never have, never will.
     
  6. Loki

    Loki Well-Known Member

    :smt038

    Tony, it is clear that you are extrapolating your experiences and the experience of those you know to all people. Surely you understand that despite how many folks you may know or associate with with, it is an incredibly small sample set that cannot possibly give you a statistically sound basis for your 98% number. Well researched studies such as this http://www.allaboutlifechallenges.org/marital-infidelity.htm put the numbers much lower, and paint a much less grim picture of marriage. If you really believe your number to be true, then please by all means never get married, just understand that not all marriages/relationships are created equal.
     
  7. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    See, it all depends on what the individual considers to be known as cheating. Some will make-out in the back of the club and not think they're cheating. Some people consider getting a blowjob from someone other than their spouse to not be cheating. While others will go to their best friend's bachelor or bachelorette party and get buck-wild with the entertainment but just write it off as “I’m just having fun with my people”.

    Some wives who are married to men of prestige know for a fact that their husbands cheat on them frequently, but turn a blind-eye to it because they want to maintain their social status and they wish to remain married for the children’s sake. I’ve had people tell me that they caught one of their parents cheating and then had them lie about it when they knew they were guilty.

    I’ve seen couples wait until the last child was out of the house before they got divorced while they had both been carrying on various relationships with other people and were only staying married for the kids’ sake. I believe in the sanctity of marriage, I really do. I’m not married right now because I’m in no hurry to get married and I only wish to get married one time and one time only.

    I don’t judge anyone who decides to cheat on their spouse, I only advise them to beware of the consequences that come along with it. I’m not saying that everyone does it, but many couples do while sometimes the only ones who know about it is them and only them. People have secrets and they’ll go to great lengths to protect them. In the public eye, they may seem like a happy couple but behind closed doors it may not be so peachy.

    A lot of people confide in me about various things, and they do so because they all know for a fact that I don’t gossip about their personal lives to anyone else (this is cyberspace so I can remain anonymous as well as them).

    In no way shape or form am I moralizing with anyone, I’m just telling the truth as I see it.
     
  8. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    CHEATING= my man putting his hands, mouth, dick or any other part of his body on or in another woman. Period.
     
  9. Loki

    Loki Well-Known Member

    Just to make sure I am not taking you too literally, platonic hugs with friends or a high five, an ecouraging pat on the back, ect. would be ok, yes?
     
  10. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    Oh god of course and encouraged. Touch is a good thing. I hug my male friends and kiss them on the cheeks (facial!) when I see them. I would hope my man is comfortable enough with his female friends to hug them and kiss them in front of me.

    I mean in a sexual way.
     
  11. KnCA

    KnCA New Member

    and there are women who are married to men of prestige who do not cheat and the women leave the marriage for other reasons....even though that may mean giving up a lot materialistically.

    So what?

    Your view is still quite skewed. And the numbers are way out of line.

    I would agree that maybe it's the number that THINK about doing it...not those who actually do.
     
  12. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    Oh I absolutely never said that ALL couples cheat, it's that a high percentage of couples do it. I understand what you are saying and there have been many women who have walked away from a prestigious marriage because they want to keep their overall sense of pride.

    I can personally vouch for my mother in that case. She had to leave my father twice and she never cheated on him no matter how much of a jerk he was to her. I’m not going into details of all the dirt he did and how he treated my mom, but let’s just say that I’d be extremely shocked if he ever got to heaven.
     

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