Mixed Signals Mixed Up?

You're actually chasing a married woman with kids? The least you can do is

!. Wait till she's divorced/seperated

2. Hit on her outside of work. Take her out for dinner. Let her know where you stand instead of playing games.

But if she'll cheat on her man, she'll definately cheat on you. If you just wanna bust a nut, do your thing.

 

Don't want her to get a divorce, if she does, she does...not chasing her...very attracted to her...being married and having kids is her situation...not mine... if she wants to f_ck someone else she doesn't need anyone's approval, it's her Ass..Eating Out has been offered, I'm not playing games maybe she want's to be the good wife. Any woman on any given day or time can F_ck someone else, married or unmaried, kids or no kids Believe IT! ThanX :smt072

 

Your responses are always intelligent, I'd love to say something but I'll keep my opinions to myself :!:

 

That's why we are here...Your opinions are welcomed :smt006 ThanX!

 

Everything in this story feels FORBIDDEN!! she is married...with kids...she works with you...

and that is probably what makes it even more attractive to you...Damn human nature huh?
U may be attracted to her, but u are also very attracted to the situation...the hypothetical possession of a woman who actually "belongs" to another man but makes u feel like u could be THE man...to TAKE her!!!

I'd say: RUN!!!...but then again, in my job, it's all about curiosity and experiments...u r the one with the decision my friend!!

Peaaaaaace!!!

 

It's somewhat clear, sleeping with other mens wives is how ADRONO gets his jollies. He'll bust this nut and move on to the next thrill :lol: :lol: I hope the woman in question doesn't live in Michigan because there an obscure provision of criminal law will be used that can put an adulterer in jail for life






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Cheat on your spouse in Michigan and spend life in prison?



DETROIT, United States (AFP) - Philanderers beware: spouses caught cheating in Michigan could end up spending the rest of their life in prison.

And not the emotional kind.

The state's appeals court recently ruled that extramarital flings can be prosecuted as first-degree criminal sexual conduct, a felony punishable by up to life in jail.

"We cannot help but question whether the Legislature actually intended the result we reach here today," Judge William Murphy wrote in a unanimous Court of Appeals panel, "but we are curtailed by the language of the statute from reaching any other conclusion."

"Technically," he added, "any time a person engages in sexual penetration in an adulterous relationship, he or she is guilty of CSC I," the most serious sexual assault charge in the state's criminal code.

Michigan still lists adultery as a felony, although no one has been convicted of the offense since 1971.

Nobody really expects prosecutors to go after cheating spouses. But the ruling has the local legal community twittering about its genuine intended target.

One theory floating around the courthouse is that the judges were taking a jab at the state Supreme Court, which has decreed that judges must interpret statutory language adopted by the Legislature literally, whatever the consequences.

Many other states allow judges to reject a literal interpretation if they believe it would lead to an absurd result.

Judge Murphy wrote that he encouraged "the Legislature to take a second look at the statutory language if they are troubled by our ruling."

A spokesman for the attoney general, who publicly admitted to adultery in November, declined to say whether they would press for legislative amendments to make it clear that only violent felonies involving an unwilling victim could trigger a first-degree CSC charge.

"This is so bizarre that it doesn't even merit a response," Rusty Hill said.

The appeals court decision involved a man convicted of trading prescription painkillers for sex.

In an attempt to increase his jail time, prosecutors used an obscure provision of the state's criminal law to charge him with criminal sexual conduct, which occurs whenever "sexual penetration occurs under circumstances involving the commission of any other felony."

 

I want to repeat something I've said over and over."I am not chasing her"! I am attracted to her and let her know it. I actually ignor her but If given the oportunity ....
I'm not attracted to the situation that's your assumption...I'm attracted to the woman...if I knew she was married with teens do you think she would have to tell me? Hell, I didn't know but have backed off....READ :? The thing is I don't care for the fact that we work together...not at all...just creates more temptation.

As far as the Legal Statutes in Michigan, maybe you aught to send a letter to Bill Clinton becuace I shure don't give a DAMN! NOT ONE BIT....

 

I don't condone sleeping with a married woman or man, but people do it all the time. Does that make it right? No, but are we all angels in here? Again, no.

Adrono, I think you need some sexual healing to get this girl off your mind.

 

I think if she would sit on my face and wiggle, I will be healed :lol:

Getting laid, isn't a problem, wanting what you can't have maybe.

 

Karma, I got cha back on this one and I must say that I couldn't have said it better. Trust me, ole girl gets mad and the brother will be the first to go whether he did anything or not. Companies don't play that shyt no more because of lawsuit up the ying yang from women, some with and without merit.

Look partner, stop thinking with your dick before it gets you in a whole lot of trouble like sexual harassment on the Job or a serious beat down or gun shot wound from the hubby. Just because the wifey isn't happy doesn't mean the hubby wants a man, especially a Black man boning up his wife.

 

No such thing as married women

There's no such thing as a married woman - just women that happen to be married.

Whilst the idea of marriage maybe absurd to you and or part of the thrill consider this - Your in the work place, shes sending mixed messages - she wants you but at the same time won't step over the line - your feigned 'not interested' only leads to higher levels of lust. Shes unhappy in her marriage and isn't going anywhere with divorce. Shes 40 + with almost grown up kids and she doesn't know what she wants.

If you could imagine a ticking human time bomb - this would be it.

Question is can you see the big muddy hole your about to fall into and step round it or step headlong into this big muddy mess.

I've got no hang-ups about guys pursuing married women - knock yourself out - maybe consider the consequences in this particular circumstance. Personally I'd see a big flashing no entry sign over her with the sound of sirens going off everytime I saw her.

 

I agree with comment not to mess with anyone at work.. it is ALWAYS a bad idea, no matter how tempting it can be..

Too much to get messed up later..

And it will... She's married, so if she goes for it.. when she's done, there will be uncomfortableness after..


And no one rarely stays with someone they cheated on their spouse with.. they might for a short time but doubtful for long if at all..

 

You all are right! Your opinions about messing with a married women, and or a co-worker can more than be a problem! A TIME BOMB :smt019 I do agree but....................... Don't need to work there, choose to! Would only be on the sly :smt047 Don't care if it last :smt074 I don't pursue desaster.
Not trying to make it sound like it's okay but face it. Been there! Done That! Hell...Aint so bad...Damn Good Even. I think it depends on the woman...I mean I've been in simular situations. where she knows when to open her mouth and when to close it :lol:

 

Again...I was getting MIXED SIGNALS...I don't know that going for it with this one would be reading the signals or just reading the signals to the way I want them to be. It's lust not romance or long term here. BIGTIME ATTRACTION! but have been ignoring it, just would like to act on it but not sure. When the door opens, she opens it, when I walk in...she get's shy

 

I knew he wanted a cheering section, but since I'm a balance-loving Libra, I had to play cheerleader and devil's advocate.

 

8) Nothing to cheer about here! No win situation as I see it :axe: I wish :smt026

 

agree

Totally agree Adrono - it depends on the situation - and its this situation - this particular woman that just doesn't feel right to me - end of the day your the guy on the ground - your there - you know how you feel and how you feel this will play out.

Good luck what ever you decide. :wink:

 

8) Morality? What is the world becoming...right? Or how about " Go ahead, make my day" Truth of the matter is no one cheats, no one lies, no one has infidelities... There's a right way and a wrong way to go about things so who am I to mess with morality right...Wrong, we all f ck up somewhere along the way, we all have had simular thoughts. I think it comes down to picking your poison eitherway the end result isn't the end all, it's the journey baby, it's the journey...

For the record, I love attractive white women. call it my vice. My situation isn't unique. But, can't have them all :smt058 and don't expect to be with every sexy woman I come in contact with but I bet, I just bet if she could openly without thought of morality question her feelings, I would think it's more chemistry than...morality and we both know it :idea:

 

You are wasting your time. Focus your attention elsewhere, like your job. Women are everywhere -- take your pick -- at least a single one.

 

HAHAHAHA !!!

THIS GUY WAS SO FUNNY, I WISH HE STAYED artyman: