Men more needy of cuddles

I think this may contradict what a number of people think. what's your view?

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/lifestyle/8629374/Men-want-cuddles-but-women-prefer-sex-survey-finds.html


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...-dear-Never-mind-sex-CUDDLES-women-stand.html


Personally, when I go to bed, I want to sleep not cuddle.

 

This definitely contradicts my experience. One comment in the first article indicated that alot of women say that a lack of kissing/affection does not affect their happiness in the relationship. I'm not not one of those women! I love kissing, affection, cuddling, spooning....it makes ALL the difference in the world in my satisfaction with my partner and the relationship.

 

Me too!!

 

That's interesting. I always thought it was the other way around. I like the cuddling and affectionate stuff also but, never thought that the women may not like it.

 

:smt023

 

I'm with you ches. I love it all plus sex.

 

Well, of course! But all the other stuff just makes the sex BETTER!!

 

After i bust a good nut i usually just wanna turn to the other side, lie in a supine position and sleep. I might cuddle just to indulge the woman.

 

I love the my man is a cuddler

 

Yes.

Yes I prefer the man that way too. Hate the distant not like touch kind. Sigh.

 

I find this true with younger women myself. It's crazy how much the roles, stereotypes, etc has reversed amongst men and women.... or maybe things have always been this way but people are finally brave enough to speak about it.

 

Affection is awesome. It is something the other person gives without having to be told or asked. It reassures the partner that they are loved and desired, and I think it means more to women after sex because it shows them that the man did not just want sex, and now that it is over he is not longer interested. I cannot get enough kisses, and do not mind being held by a woman in public. After intimacy one may want to talk and spooning means you also get to hold her breasts. Affection brings people closer.

 

Co-sign!! :smt023

 

I love cuddling and I love cuddly guys My last man was a cuddler and I just loved it.

One time we were in bed in the morning and I was just kissing him all over his face and head just for fun. At a certain point he said "Stop kissing me to death!!!". LOL, I thought it was so cute.

 

In my experience big lips are important to ww. Kissing never gets old. It is very passionate, you can look the person in the eyes, kiss different ways, and with myself, I love to kiss a woman's entire body. The only time kissing is a problem is if it is one sided.

 

I've been with a man that showed no affection and hated it. I MUCH prefer my husbands overly affectionate nature. He's way more cuddly and lovey dovey than me. I love it.

 

IMO, men who are uncomfortable in displays of affection and love are only revealing that which they never had...

 

I agree. If you feel that intoxicating emotion called love, you want everyone to know about it.

 

:smt045

 

I'm like that too.