married white male here...

I am a 35 yo mwm. I am a very normal, attractive guy who finds the whole bm/ww to be very sexy and erotic. I get very turned at the thought of it, let alone the site of it. I'm not sure why. I mean I have been this way quite some time. I often fantasize about my own wife going there and it drives me crazy (in a good way).

I guess I'm asking for everyones thoughts. My fantasies do go much deeper I may add.

 

Welcome to the site

I don't have any opinion via a vis your cockloadry fetish, but I know one thing; you are not the only wm who feel that BM WW couples are fascinating. People on this site most likely will not question you or hurt your feeling.

Heck !! I might post a cockloadry story so stick around.

Welcome :smt003

 

The Attraction/Married White Male

Welcome to the site. It's definitely true that most on this site will treat you with respect as long as you treat them the same way. We've had situations before with trolls, both white men and black women, who feel a need to voice their disapproval. That's the only thing I take issue with.But if you're here to interact and enjoy good company with some bright and fascinating black men and white women, then welcome aboard!Who knows?It would be refreshing for once to read posts from an intelligent white male who didn't have penis envy or insecurity issues!
Thanks again, and welcome!

 

Do tell!! :lol:

kymwm - I feel kind of sorry for you. We all have the same fascination as you (as far as ww/bm, not the wife thing) the only difference is we get to act on it! :lol: That sounded kind of mean, but I'm just teasing - anyway, welcome.

 

this is quickly becoming my fav site. I enjoy confessing my desires and fantasies

 

I dunno, I find that whole cuckhold thing creepy as hell. I am suspicious of the underlying motives of the fetish. What is so fascinating about your wife getting it on with a black guy? Cause you see it as her being naughty and slutty or something?

 

I agree, it is completely gross. And insulting as hell to black guys! come on you folks, what is wrong with you all?! This attitude is counter to the whole point of the website!

 

Well, he isn't bashing IR dating. I mean some guy comes on a couple of weeks ago going off how bm should feel guilty for dating ww - and he was greeted with 'so glad we have a different point of view' - what's with that? (not that it was you, mb). The spirit of the site is pro IR dating, and he hasn't proven to be otherwise.

And as far as the fantasy, I see where it could be gross and disrespectful - but many fantasies/fetishes are. And he doesn't put it out in a disrespectful way - he simply acknowledges it. Besides, I don't have to identify or agree with his fetish.

 

I didn't greet that other guy any kind of way either. Black men feeling guilty......how lame but that's on the black guys here to address. But when a guy comes here speaking about something that includes my people (white woman) I have to pipe up. Sorry *shrugs*, I find it distasteful, the connotations behind this fetish reek of racist thoughts hence my questions. Trying to delve into his mind.....WHY does he like the idea of his little white woman "doing" a black guy?

Some say I have a fetish because I prefer black guys, I would disagree since my attraction to black men is multi layered and not based on sex...well not totally...lol...seriously though, I'm not bashing people with fetishes, each to his own, but this particular fetish raises my hackles. Most times a ww having sex with a black guy is seen as being defiled, as over sexed, slutty. I mean is it just me or isn't this obvious?

 

It's a little baffling as to why a white man might be interested in hanging around this site. Maybe kymwm could explain that to us. I certainly don't have a problem with it, but I am curious.

I'm also curious as to whether your wife shares your fantasies, kymwm. Or maybe she's GGG? ("Good, Giving, & Game" for those who aren't Dan Savage readers.)

 

I didn't mean you greeted the other that way either, shedvil, sorry that it came off that way. Any person who comes on here saying a bm should feel guilty for dating a ww is not complimenting ww and it doesn't exactly have nothing to do with us - it's not just for the guys to address. At least, the last guy was not saying 'hey ww are GREAT - but don't date them.'

I completely see where you would not like this fetish, I'm not a huge fan myself. But as a comparison, there are plenty of black guys on this forum who want to screw thier white women into submission as part of a fantasy. There could be nasty connotations to that, too - but there doesn't have to be. It depends on the holder of the fantasy, I guess.

OK - well I'm done weighing in on this subject. To each his or her own. And if you and MB have issues with this poster and/or fetish - I understand why and respect it. :wink:

 

The Attraction.White Male.

:? Okay, okay.I have to say that I myself have fetishes, and many times they are not understood either, so I empathize with someone else who has as such.
I just don't see what's really wrong with this fellow expressing how he feels.Now, if he came in and started intimating that black men were only useful as "black bulls" and weren't good enough for his wife in any other context, then I might have an issue with this.But unless I missed something I thought he was just expressing something.I personally AM NOT ONE WHO ENGAGES IN THE PRACTICE OF CUCKHOLDS.I FIND THE ENTIRE ACT BENEATH ME.But that's for other people to decide on their own.
I'll even concede that some of the women may be offended at the fact of this poster being married.Fair enough.There are married people on this forum.On the other hand, I still think a person can be open about what they feel.I am likely in the minority here simply because of my mild BSDM outlook on sexuality, but maybe we could give the guy a chance and just try on another view?It's only a suggestion, no slings and arrows,please.

 

wedlock...we know all about your fetishes...feet...toes...polish...feet...toes...polish...love teasing you....

 

The Attraction....Fetishes.

Tickling, light bondage, tickling.......safewords, and more tickling.LOL The nectar of life is a woman's ticklish laughter.

 

I'm sorry but it is offensive to post about that particular fetish on this forum. It is absolutely not the same as a black guy wanting to do his own woman as hard as he likes in the bedroom. This guy has a cuckold fetish because he thinks that black guys ARE simply black bulls: they are sex objects with big cocks who are good enough to give his woman a great time in the bedroom and no more. He is not saying he supports IR relationships, he says he supports the idea of a black man (an oversexed animal, in his mind) doing what he feels he can't do to his wife. That is damned insulting. He probably also has some serious sexual insecurity issues within his own psyche, but frankly I neither know nor care about that. His posts are creeping the hell out of me and I hope he vanishes quickly.

Like you say, I'm entitled to my own opinion :lol:

 

Understand your thinking FSP, just don't agree, the other guy was talking the usual crackpot argument that the black community needs the like 5% that date out because of the whole BMS(black male shortage), I would have jumped in his ass street vernacular (winks at kenny_g) hoodrat style had he said one thing about ww as a whole.

Sure this guy here now is not outright being disrespectful, but as MB pointed out it is the whole premise that is disrespectful.

Wedlock, no hate here baby! Do your thang! It is in no way dissing anyone!

 

No no no, please... I never meant to offend or make anyone upset. I mean absolutely no disrespect to anyone. This is a fantasy. One doesn't have to fulfill their fantasy. He could simply fantasize about it. If he wanted to fulfill it then all parties involved would agree to it. It's meant to be fun, not disrespectful. I appologize to anyone if I offended you.

 

The Attraction.........Married White Male Thread.

Oh I know, WSD, I felt you were only expressing your opinion.We all come from different viewpoints.Anyway, we'll just see how it plays out,because we have seen our share of characters on this board!LOL

 

Re: The Attraction.........Married White Male Thread.

That is one part I cannot argue with however hard I might try :lol:

 

No offense taken.