Ugh. I've been engaged twice in my life and once only after only two weeks of dating and still managed to take the time to have a conversation about how I would say no if I was proposed to in public. I'm a fan of blending in. So I married a black man and live in the South. Never mind.
1) OUCH hot coffee. LOL 2) hell to the yeah a sign. Even if they got back together it should be a sign one...never do that again with anyone. two with her she has no decorum she is very churlish. Also , two asses in the house would definitely stink up the place