Love,money,respect & spirituality

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Be-you-tiful86, Jul 23, 2009.

  1. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member

    Rank these from greatest to least...

    Respect- how important is others' admiration or attitude toward you

    Love- this is self explanatory... how important is being loved to you

    Money- again self explanatory

    Spirituality- how important is ur relationship with YOUR higher being. If this doesn't pertain to you, then just bypass this one.

    Feel free to explain if you'd like to...

    My ranking would be..

    Respect
    Love
    Money
    Spirituality
     
  2. fly girl

    fly girl Well-Known Member

    Spirituality
    Love
    Money
    Respect

    I believe there are 3 types of relationships we have in this world. Our relationship with God, with the world (other people) and finally with our selves. For me, my relationship with God comes first, then with myself and finally my reltionship to the world. People come last because they mostly drain me. I enjoy dealing with them, but pretty much on my own terms in my own ways.

    Now how that fits into what you asked is, God comes first, love comes second (which I relate to how I deal with myself), and respect comes last because it symbolizes my relationship with others. I put money over this because damn I hate being broke. LOL
     
  3. z

    z Well-Known Member

    My ranking would be..

    Spirituality- to keep me grounded. God has saved me from a lot of trials and tribulations including sucide and so on
    Love- if there is such thing as true love that would be my 2nd choice, but I know I will never experience it
    Money- no need for explanation here
    Respect- I really don't care for it, whether u respect me or not I don't give a hoot. I do my thing and continue to succeed. I don't live my life for anyone's approval.
     
  4. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    This is a tough one to answer

    Love and Respect- tied. I cannot love you if I don't respect you. I wouldn't want you to love me if you did not respect me.
    I won't work for you if i don't respect you and I would imagine the reverse would be true.
    I find it hard to "hear" someone if I have little or no respect for them.

    Spirituality- I have my own relationship with the universe that is mine and mine alone

    Money- I could not care less. I have had a lot of it, and I have had none. I was the same person. As long as I have enough to survive I am fine.

    I find if you work on 1, 2, and 3....money comes your way.
     
  5. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    well my list wil be
    Respect first not the most importan but more from the rest
    money is second on my list ...i dont need to be rich but we need the money to live :)
    Spirituality few year ago i will have it on top of my list but after what hapening to my life i dont think i can believe much anymore
    love i will like to take this out of the list not something i believe
     

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