This is absolutely nothing personal, I‘d just like to point out the ww in the Forum name to avoid disappointments later on… That being said „The 5 languages“ is a good book, very helpful to make the relationship smooth. I’m a physical touch and words of affirmation type of person (when it comes to what I like to receive). In terms of giving I think quality time and physical touch come natural to me. (For those who haven’t read the book, it doesn’t mean everything else is not important, just that 1 or 2 speak loudest to you).
Humor. If we can good naturedly rib one another about each other & life in general that's a plus. Both in romantic relationships & platonic ones. If you have no sense of humor or a totally shitty or straight up mean spirited one, you get avoided like the plague on humanity that you clearly are....