Looks or Personality?

Sounds like an interesting concept.

 

Can you imagine this world? Can you imagine not being lonely? I'm sure you do. I think of a world like that often. The only difference is between the sexes and humanity will be acknowledged and accepted.

 

I find it more productive to deal with reality.

 

Reality according to whom? As it is or how you perceive it? Just because things are the way they are, doesn't mean it is the way it should remain.

 

I can appreciate physical beauty but few men captivate me mentally and spiritually.

 

I see what you did there.

 

I mean reality as in actually dealing with people. I can sit at home and fantasize about all sorts of things as to how I want them to be. But if I'm not actually interacting with others to create, build, maintain relationships with them...it doesn't really matter. Relationships (of whatever type) involve more than just me and my mind.

I never said that means things have to stay the same. I just don't see that they can be any different without the interaction with others in some way.

There is this philosophy that how we truly grow and resolve things in life is within relating to others.

 

Looks. I can't lie...it's human nature. I've never met a woman and thought, "she's so cool...I want to sleep with her." I've never met a woman and let her personality override her unattractive physical features.

Oh the other hand, I have slept with attractive women who had no personalities, were a complete assholes or stuck up b...hes or were dumb as a box of rocks. I even banged some of them a few times or recruited them to be FWBs... I don't have a problem separating sex from bullshit. It just means the amount of time that we're going to spend together is probably going to be under 2 hours and we're not going to talk a lot during that time.