Liking Black Men Does Not Mean You Are Suppose to Dislike Black Women

I've never been raped, but I can still put myself into that mindset in order to sympathize with women/girls/men/boys who have.

It is a power and dominance thing, like all violent crimes.

 

Ah! so they radiated you? Do you take pills now to replace the thyroid hormones or the managed to fix it perfectly?

Its a while ago.. we all will have to deal with loved ones passing.
Its in the past and it gave me a passion.

 

I agree with what your saying if you're talking about a serial case in which the dominance is the high but in singular events isn't a little simpler. Like a mugger who mugs people for money to buy things he needs or want the drive is the money not the power so if you follow the same line of thinking wouldn't rape be just about the sex? Like I said earlier it's an interesting topic. Deviance fascinates me like what cause one mind to seek power through rape and another through arson. Are we all capable of this kind of behavior. What can be done to stop it?

 

wow, that was deep.

 

My heart definitely sings for you my friend. They actually got it all and say I don't need pills to regulate my thyroid but I think I do. I can weight too easily. I'm lucky I'm active but I often fear i'm one broken leg away from obesity.

 

Thank you and same goes back to you!

Do you still get to check your thyroid hormones?

 

Yeah but it boggles my mind. When does need turn into obsession causing others to have complete disregard for life.

 

This thread definitely went off on the wrong track. Trolls, man. Ignore them.

 

FG, I'm sorry that you had to go what you've gone through as well as Andrae.

I want to personally thank you for what you're doing cause my father, uncle, and cousin all had Cancer. My aunt, 3 of my 4 grandparents and great aunt all died of it.

 

I actually haven't. Do you think I should?

 

ah, it just is - I have come to terms with it a long time ago.
We all have stuf to fight

and oh, thanks fo rthe rose:-0
:smt054

 

No. That's not the case at all.

Rape has nothing to do with sex. Even in isolated instances, where a man only rapes one woman, he's doing it out of anger against that woman or a woman who has wronged him.

 

You think rape is a singular event? It's not the sort of thing a man generally does, marks it off his 'have to try that once before I die' list, and then goes back to being a normal human being.

I think you're maybe looking at it from the perspective of the mugger needed money and so he mugged someone, the rapist needed sex and so he raped someone? That's not how it works. I realize that it's hard for men who don't think like rapists to grasp this, but rape isn't about sex. If you take sex out of the equation you see all that's left is power/dominance/control. I'm not sure why some men have trouble separating sex from rape, but an awful lot of them do. I think perhaps the men who aren't wired like that just can't imagine their dicks for anything other than sex, they don't equate it with being a weapon. It's not the sexual act itself that they get off on, it's the fear and pain they inflict in taking something that they have no right to.

 

Baby girl I hope you get checked out often.

 

aww.. now y'all are making me blush

Cancer is a part of aging and probably not a cause for concern unless they all had the same cancer. Get the history of it so you are informed

Not really, thyroid cancer is one we are excellent at treating.

 

Yeah, cause my fathers father had 3 types of Cancer.

Throat, Colon and Skin and died of Skin.

 

Well at least I know I'm not a rapist wow. I guess I think about stories where men in war do shit like that and I wonder would they have done it if not in war or guys in prison. I guess I have reading to do.

 

In place of a huggie smiley :smt056

 

Damn this thread is really pulling on my heart strings right now lol. Lost an ex to cancer and it still gets to me even though it's been almost 7 years.

 

Well then, what the fuck are you doing here putz!?