Liking Black Men Does Not Mean You Are Suppose to Dislike Black Women

We Black Women are more loyal to our race of men then any race of women. Surely you've heard of the negative stereotypes about black women and their opinions of black men, but let me have the mike to represent the Black Women who have always respected and loved black men for once.

We love black men......their strength, courage, wisdom, physique and kindness. I would not be where I am without having love and encouragement from the black men in my life. Not just from my father or brother, but from friends and even just strangers on the street dropping the knowledge.

It was black men that was the first to tell me that I am beautiful and that I do have self worth in a society where the standard of beauty is european features. It was black men that encourage me to seek higher education, to stay strong and motivated. I thank God for black men.

With that said there's a few white females that like the controversy that is often exposed between black men and black women. They like the division because they like the attention. If you truly like black men like you say you do, then you should learn to get to know black women first before you try to diss, maybe you can learn something. Women as a whole need to stop being so catty

 

To be honest, I am not interested in that stereotypes at all. which one it will ever be. Normally I don´t even read them.

But I notice that I use the term bm in my real life, too, since I am on this board. I don´t like that I got used to it - something I´ve never done before. White-Black-White, it´s a man or a woman.

Very correct

Again I don´t know about that. I know men and women of the black community - why should I be interested in any negative atmosphere between them. But why are you so much interested in that topic?

 

Go away.

 

Although I 100% agree with women being catty and unsupportive of eachother in genereal...
Acctually that IS a topic on one of the threads...
Many of us dont have many female friends for that very reason.

I dont think that the women you point out has been aggressive towards you uncalled for. You really have managed to push some old stereotype buttons.

Perhasp that was not your intention, perhaps it is - My jury is still out - but I give you the benefit of a doubt, although precariously so.

You have to understand that many black women, and white men come here JUST for the sheer puropse of stirring up trouble and throw around old stereotypes we all are tired of hearing... it gets old and its offensive.

Its the same old pattern, nice in the beginning and the WHAM, it all goes to hell in a handbasket.

If you taken a deep look at this site - you will see that this is NOT a pick-up site or meat market.
Its a place where we can discuss topics that concerns us due to the relationships we are in or were in or otherwise.

People that come here for the sheer purpose to hook up - they dissapear very quickly as it just doesnt happen as a rule of thumb (I cant speak for the lurkers).

Take me for example, I came here because I had trouble with my X's mother who could not stand the fact that I was white (and she was half white).. the relationship went to crap partly because of that.. but I stayed on here because I really liked alot of the regular posters.

Unlike many others on here, I welcome both wm and bw.. IF they dont have agendas and want to partake in a discussion without being offensive.

I say this a lot:
Its not what you say, but how you say it.

You can have an opinion and it might blow up in your face here, someone else can have the exactly same opinion and somehow is capable of having a fruitful discussion without get digged into.... it happens here all the time here, and the difference is ALWAYS in how they approach people on here....

Freedom of speech - to me is NOT free- its only free IF you use it with responsibillity - once that is breached, the freedom is no longer yours.
i.e., again - its NOT what you say - its HOW you say it...

Its not about sensor-ship to me (I dont believe in it), but its about respect...
Once you jump that line, you are bound to get it back....

You have to give respect to get it.

and once "you" shown "your" inabillity to have a fruitful discussion without downright offending people, or be a cyber bully - then I think that "freedom" you have needs to re-evaluated...
We all have to take inventory at times.... and freedom of speach do not mean that everything written or said needs to be accepted.

and btw - that last paragraph as not really aimed at you... but in general in regards to recent events.

 

+1

 

:smt042

 

Stop it..lol

Middle-eastern women are the most loyal.BW the least.

BW are not loyal to BM at all...racist like Strom Thruman and Justin Wolpe are proof.

Loyal women don't name their BLACK sons T'brickashaw and tell the WORLD their men are dogs and on the DL.

I can't help but notice that BW never give their bi-racial children ridiculous made-up names.


If WM liked BW the way they do Asian females...you'd all run to the other side with a quickness.

WE ARE THE ONLY RACE OF MEN BW DO NO SUBMIT TO.

That's not loyalty.

 

I have said a few times already that I couldn't care less about the issues of bw or between bw and bm.
My only interest here is on topics and issues of ww and bm.

Get over it.

 

:smt038

 

Homegirl, I think you're lost...

 

Thanks.

 

as a bm who was married to a bw ( read a black fathers pain thread ) I understand what you are saying but you have come to the wrong place saying that bm hate bw because we like ww. that is on the contrary. i love bw but i also love ww , aw , lw ect...

i like those who fit my criteria for physical, mental , spiritual , principals and values.

bm dont get on tv like bw and dog out bm saying there are no good bm around.

bm dont get on tv saying we are uneducated and all of us are trying to just have sex with bw.

bw are the ones who also like other races withhold the kids from the fathers and doing other slick stuff to hurt the bm.

yall are the sameones saying if he is nice then he must be weak.

yall are the sameones saying if he dont make a certain amount of money or have these material goods or have a certain education status then im not talking to him.

Im not saying just settling but you are no better than men when it comes to being shallow. thus when you be shallow then you reap what you sow.

do i need to go on.

 

you have absolutely no proof that bw are more loyal than any other.

and when it comes to "we love their kindness" . that is the biggest lie because bw love to take bm's kindness for weakness.

 

I like black women. My sisters-in-law and mother in law are black. They are wonderful women, I think the world of them!

 

thank you. thank you all

 

STANDING UP CLAPPING..

 

Deciphering a troll (Pt 1)

By loyalty I don't mean how we treat Black men, loyalty for Black women means wanting Black men for ourselves.

Stop believing all the Black men on a here.

I'm trying to divert you away from my actions by claiming that's it really you who are looking to divide and need attention.

Because you don't really, truly like Black men like we BW do. you just like their big dicks!!!!

You need to learn about Black women because you nothing about us, just like you know nothing about Black men. You can't ignore us, if you are with a Black man, you HAVE to deal with us.

 

One I gotta say that whoever blacgrl is you came to the wrong place. Everyone on here is obviously of the same mindset you're not going to turn anyone with your propaganda. You're the personification of the sterotypes about bw we bm can't stand.
Btw some of the women on here I have to call you out for the hypocrites you are. When any of the men say something you don't like you have no problem coming at us hard but I have definitely taken notice of how you're handling this black chick with kid gloves. Calling on bm on here out on his bs is man woman shit but if it's a bw it might percieved as racist?