Ladies, do you prefer the lover or the fighter?

Here is the 'black cat' doing his thing. Face looks like chiselled granite.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_hS_DKab8I

 

not weird at all.. i feel the same way. but i guess it depends on the guy.

 

Re: lover vs fighter

There's a vast assortment of men that fall somewhere between the lover and the fighter. I suppose I'm like most women in that I appreciate a man that falls somewhere in the middle - a man who has the intelligence (both emotional and intellectual) to know when it's appropriate to love or to fight.

 

women tend to like my body,,,,i was walking down the street a few seconds ago and a car filled with women stopped and began yelling "heeeeeeyyy sexyyy"...lol.......


As for the topic,,,dont listen to these women, most of them want a fighter.....trust me,,,,nice guys finish last

 

This is one time where I may actually agree with BMJ. Not only do nice guys finish last, but nice girls finish last, too.

Nice girls get sh*t on, on a daily basis by wolves in sheep's clothing. They are left in the dust after being manipulated in a new way by a different man (after they thought they've seen it all). They are left with broken hearts and wondering why men suck so bad and left wondering what is so wrong with them that men find new ways to hurt them emotionally.

Bad men leave these women in their wake without so much as an explanation or a backward's glance in their direction as they go after their new conquest.

Makes one wonder how good people eventually find each other and form a lasting union. And why some people continually fall into traps with the wrong people.

 

bookworm,

agreed to a certain degree, but i still can't help but be "nice"...lol people just need to be true to themselves...if people were more honest with themselves about who they are and what they want, everyone would be happier in the long run.

:wink:

 

Yeah, no matter how many times bad things happen to me, I am still nice. And it always ends up being to a fault. Maybe some day that nice guy will come along. Until then I'll go on plugging along and hoping that karma catches up to the manipulators and liars of the world.

Bitter, party of 1?? :wink: :lol:

 

haha...actually I remember talking this girl once who was complaining that every single guy she dated was a basturd...and she wanted to give up on guys and go with girls....well she then asked me what it takes to attract girls......haha,,i first looked her deep in the eyes,,,and asked her to take a good look at me,,,,then said "this is what it takes to attract girls"...lol... needless to say i had to be honest with her and i told her that if she wanted to get a NICE girl she would have to learn the basic of being a jerk and become the very thing she attracts.,...ofcourse that was the same year i was writing an online blog called "being a jerk for dummies" so she came to the right person...... i taught her everything i knew about being a jerk. From the way we walk, to the way we talk. The manner in which we tend to manupilate with such ease.......a few months later she became the very person she tends to fall for.....she eventually met the girl of her dreams....

So my suggestion is to give up on guys,,cuz we're simply no good....come to me and i'll show you how to get those nice girls CRYING every single night with a broken heart

 

While nice guys tend to fall for "booby traps"......nice girls on the other hand are some what naive, completely stupid and simply never learn. Im not that bad of a guy, but some girls need tobrush up on that wsidom and stop taking shit from people. Keeping in mind that if you TAKE shit from people you will keep getting shitted on.....

I was a nice guy to when i was 12........but it just wasnt working for me...and with me its I either evolve and alter myself based on my surroundings or i disapear....and since disapearing is not something i intend on doing any time soon i will evolve,,,for good or bad,,better or for worse

 

A woman likes a fighter until the day he puts a foot in her ass.

 

LOL! Thanks for giving me a good laugh. I needed that. :lol:

At least you admit that you're not a nice guy. You are who you are and you don't apologize for it....I am in no way condoning your behavior towards women, but I will say that at least you're upfront about it!

 

Oh so true oh so true. :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

 

Lover AND fighter. (not necessarily in that order)

 

Neither. I like a man who cares and has a head on his shoulders.

 

lol..

reminds me of the time a coworker was talking about Beyonce's song, about needing a soldier.

he was like yeah, you need a soldier alright, up until he busts you right in the mouth for talking shit to him.