Ladies and Gentlemen, what would you like the opposite sex understand about you?

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Inquiring minds would like to know.

 

Women are guided by their emotions. You guys have no idea how one little thing that you said to us can stay in our minds for days...weeks...

 

Well aware of this, also well aware that this can be turned off or on to suit the occasion in question.

 

I'm good for this smh

 

That as big as my butt and boobs are... my heart is bigger.
(Sometimes I feel like gaining a million pounds, just so that *most* people won't be "damn, she's hot", and would see me as... me.)

And that if I'm willing to lay out how I feel, it means it's been on my mind for quite awhile, took a lot of guts, but I want to hear it exactly how it is.

 

Yes! Always want to hear it like it is...no need to baby me with lies.

For me personally, I keep 95% of people on the surface level at all times...if I open up to a man on a personal level (kids, family, fears, insecurities), it's because he means THAT much to me.

I'm incredibly loyal...but if you fuck me over, we're done. No ifs, ands or buts about it. I'll always remain courteous, but you'll never get beyond the surface level again.

 

Understand that ALL your male friends want to have sex with you.

 

Fixed

 

Hahaha I used to fight with my ex about this all the time. I still believe some dudes are sweet and just want to be friends!

 

They may just want to be your friend, but that doesn't mean that they haven't thought about you naked or masturbated to you at least once :smt077

 

Hahaha nice visual, thanks!!

 

Can I get an AMEN

Preach brotha preach.

Male friends are dudes scheming to fuck or too pussy to go after what they want so they settle for friendship.

Edit: This applies only to attractive women. Let's be honest we all know what's what

 

Unfortunately what I've seen in life is this, the more attractive you are the more people want to know the real you the less attractive the less people care about the real you. Its sad that we attach so much meaning to looks.

 

You don't have female friends who you don't want to have sex with?

 

Just looking for opportunity and right time. Moment of weakness, and we are in

 

yeah but I don't make friends with people I want to have sex with otherwise they'd be girlfriends and not just friends. But I think I'm very different because unlike most guys not every girl I see is potential pussy to fuck. Most guys I see have absolutely zero self control this forum is great indicator of that.

 

So ugly girls can have sincere male friendships but pretty girls can't?! What kind of messed up noise is that?! I think that blows. I still think there are some guys out there who can maintain a meaningful friendship with an attractive woman, without trying to fuck her.

Hahahaha terrible! Like a lion stalking its prey

 

I think women need to learn men don't want to be lonely but much of the time we want to be left the fuck alone.
I want them to understand our idea of a best friend and your idea of a best friend are totally different. I notice when women make their man their best friend they treat them like a female best friend who they express every single emotion to not understanding that when men are best friends we express very little unless its a major event otherwise we just like to shoot the shit nothing too heavy. So have enough consideration to know that when a man doesn't want to talk about most things its not that we don't want to talk to you about them with you we don't want to talk to anybody about it.

 

No straight man wants to be just friends with a pretty girl. He wants to fuck her its instinct. An ugly girl is not a girl to a man she's non entity which almost just makes her another guy to us. Very sad but true. Its the same thing that makes your sensitive male best friend just a friend. Zero physical attraction equals friend otherwise it'd be the guy you are totally in love with but its going nowhere.

 

Seems like most of it is people having fun flirting. Even irl friendships with some women are fun because you both may have or develop some sort of attraction to each other, but it does not mean you would act out the thought. Anyway many people on this forum seem to be in relationships, some even married, so it seems for the most part to be all in good fun and appreciation for one another.