kissing, dating a black woman is like kissing your sister!?

I find that dating a black woman often times felt like being with my own biological sister, so I had no emotional, sexual attraction to most black women growing up.

Has anyone else felt that way?

this is for white women too, who might have had the same experience with white men??

 

No, sex with white men never felt like incest.

Sometimes you really amuse me! :lol:

One rule I have is that my only brother is about 15 months younger than I am, and I would never date someone who was of his age or younger - younger men I do only have sisterly feelings for because I see them as his contemporaries.

 

why? I didnt say anything about sex. why would I amuse you? I was asking a question, and explaining how I felt dating black women. whats wrong with what I said Mistress?

 

as you experience the age thing, i was with the racial issue. black women mostly seem like my sisters and just interested if others had that experience or feeling.

 

um..nah i never felt that way

 

cool, glad to hear that!

 

I didn't mean to be harsh, it was just a bit of an odd question to post!

 

i guess, i meant it for the BM here then, not an odd question here. i have been asked it many times

 

what analogy? and what respect or disrespect are you talking about?

 

i was wondering the same thing.

 

antwi-sorry bro, but what are you talking about? I didnt say anything about treating black women like my biological sisters. please reread what was written before responding.

thanks everso much

 

WOW, Tucker, you got some serious psychological problems pal...

...and i thought I WAS the weird one LOL.

 

Re: kissing, dating a black woman is like kissing your siste

You've mentioned that BW never seemed attracted to you. Could it be you treated them a certain way and nonblacks another.....making them more receptive to you? Sometimes when people have profound distaste for their own it's very obvious IMO. Some WM who date nonwhite women are like this too, but you clearly have no feelings of kinship or connection to women from your race....at least that's the impression you give.

 

You two are very very similar and have lots in common. I never felt it necessary to treat people differently according to their skin color, but I know it's quite prevalent and sometimes encouraged by SOs. I once broke up with someone who wanted me to mirror the same contempt he had for women in his culture against WM. I personally feel this type of behavior directly fuels the backlash talked about on other threads.

The person I broke up with had an altercation with a WW in college once. He later tried to organize a support group from blacks and WW, but only a few BM had his back because of his reputation.

 

Never felt that way Tuck...unless of course the bw had something specific about her (mannerism, physical feature, personality quirk etc.) that strongly reminded me of a relative. I might feel that way in that case.

 

clearly NOT, never treat them any differently, maybe i do, and if I did I would have treated them better seeing as they are my sisters.

also, having gone to an HBCU, I am comfortable talking to sistahs, being around them and having them as friends. but i was never attracted to MOST of them and dont think most of them were attracted to me.

again, Rosey and pey, this is white women black men, so try that in blackplanet or blacknet

pey you are the only one in here with clearly psychological issues. nothing I said was attacking a black woman or psychiologically mean to black women

 

I only said you may have issues becuz i find it strange that you see women of your own race as "sisters" and therefore you cannot find them attractive in that way, and you use that as an excuse for your love of white women. I think you are just avoiding the REAL issue why you crave white pussy....


By the way, how do I have psychological issues???

 

Having the same hue of skin doesn't make anyone necessarily related. :lol: I find your question to be very demeaning to black women, even if it wasn't intended to be, because it implies that black women can't be seen as attractive to us black men, if they are too much like 'sisters' to us, and I would never feel that way about all black women, because, even to this very day, I still would lay down with some of them, but I am still more into white women.

No offense though, but I just had to say something.