It is not a "turn on"...it is a need. Women need love, yes, but equally so we need and desire security. Love is wonderful, but because it alone does not put clothing on the children nor food in their mouths, women do want security. Therefore, the man who wants a wife should understand that he must be a provider as well as a lover and a friend. It is these THREE things (love, friendship and security) that are the essence of a well rounded relationship and a stable family.
Truth.