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I've stated why I think you hate women...didn't you read the post? I never said you were dead inside...where do you get these things? I don't know if you kiss beautiful women's asses or not, lol!

I wasn't trying to be judgemental, by the way. You seem to dislike women, you've always got something nasty to say about them. That's an observation, not a judgement.

 

No....you never stated WHY I hated women. You stated your opinion on why you hate to read my post, therefore, a judgment.

 

That's why I said you didn't like women.

Wouldn't a judgement be me saying you're a sexist pig? If I'm just saying I hate to read your posts, that's just me saying I don't like to read something...

 

Better yet, riddle me this: if I am such a women hater, then how come I attract so many women!? Do women truly prefer a man who evil, cold and detached!? If that is the case how can a man seek an equal partnership!? Yet, I support a women almost entirely. She can leave any time she wants, in fact, I encourage it; YET, How many women will support their men given any endeavour!? But yeah, I know I am a women hater what is the flashy word women use again.......!? Misogynist!? Damn.....such a harsh word.

 

You talking to MisB?

 

Yet, you do read my posts. That is why you opinion is an judgment, it is an judgment because you feel the need to comment on the atmosphere of my posts. This is because it does not go with your senses. It shows a lack of objectivity on your part.

 

I am talking to you both.

 

How could we attest to why you attract women? Believe me, it's more of mystery to me than it is you.

 

Just because I read your posts doesn't mean me saying I don't like them is a judgement of you. It's an opinion of your posts.

You can't deny that you hardly ever paint a flattering picture of women.

 

My point is, in order for me to dislike OR even hate women, I must repel them in some sort of a way.

 

What gave you that idea? Ted Bundy killed 40+ women and he attracted them easily. Hating women has nothing to do with whether or not you can attract them.

 

So....in order to get a "likable" response I must cater to your needs!? You only dislike the picture I create because it does not coincide to your senses. I talk about Truth and the metaphysics behind that Truth, that is all. It is called objectivity.

 

So I guess my last assertion was correct!? Women are truly unpeaceful; because, if a evil man such as that can attract 40 or more there must be something wrong with the mental health of women. Wouldn't ya say!? How can a man seek equal partnership, when the average male in not that evil!?

 

The interesting thing is you women eat it right up here on these boards. The moment a fool pops up with idiotic overmacho generalizations about women, you launch into bickering with him, as if you're going to change (what's left of) his mind... In the meanwhile, more worthy threads sink quietly to the bottom...

You should understand that women hating is its own punishment-- yet you believe that the egomaniacal guy who hates women and has fantasies of violence against them has multiple girlfriends (sabinne! :roll... Even as he has so much time to post, and harbors so much bitterness against all women... How do you think that happens anyway? lol

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...To me, it makes the site boring, plus the ring leader in the misogyny is a true & living negative stereotype for bm -- a tinny, stilted fool always talking stuff about "intelligence", yet spewing words that he obviously barely knows the meaning of...

I think unless you're in the spy game, the more you rattle on about "intelligence" the less you actually command the faculty... A lot of the really dull guys here use the word as if they just learned it...

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Anyways, this is one of the better topics lately. This site has a lot of potential for examining our preferences and sharing experiences and ways of coping as halves of that most subversive combination -- the black man and the ww -- but the bickering is reaaaaaally boring.

Don't you realize that some of these guys just like to bicker? lol

For example, there's one guy who argues against ww who like black men for their skin color, yet he's written that his preference for ww lies in the fact that...

"I am just MORE TURNED ON by the flesh of a female's ass with white skin, then any other color of a woman, and I probably will be like this until the day I die, unless something in my life, or something happens in this world to change my mind about it somehow, but I seriously doubt it. I know how this message may come across to some people, but if you don't like it, then just suck it up and deal with it, OK?"

:mrgreen:

...And this guy, part of the misogyny tag-team, you girls faithfully respond to, though his very screen name suggests he's snide and "contrary", and enjoys being so.

So stop whining!

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There are some guys who make posts so rattly & nonsensical, I really don't even read them.

The people who make interesting posts in my opinion are mosiah, flaming hetero, jaydun, mistress b, iffey's wifey, lexington (before she became porcelainsnowprincess or whatever ), graphics rat, and a few others that I may have forgotten. I don't have much time to post lately, but I lurk a bit, so props to those posters... May not always agree with them, but at least they further real conversation...

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My other irritation about this site is that though it's called whitewomenblackmen.com, it attracts too many guys who were apparently actually looking for anythingbutblackwomen.com... You know -- the guys who are like: "I love latin/indian/asian/austronesian/martian, etc., women, but black women have too much attitude!"

...Got news for you: the "martians" have more hatred & spite for bm than black women & white women combined, and with much more loathesome motive...

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So that's my $.02. Anyway, thanks for the thread, boll!

 

More worthy threads like women in the NRA? Come on, I'm clutching at straws here!!

 

Unpeaceful? No, just sympathetic. You did know that Ted Bundy used a fake cast to fool the women into helping him, didn't you?

Why are you asking what the average male needs to attract a woman? You seem to have no trouble in that area, so you apparently don't need that knowledge. Besides, I don't go looking for the average man. I want above average or better.

 

To be fair, I had one discussion with 7Seven which ended very successfully: he eventually began to argue the opposite side, although I think this was by accident. Oops.

 

You didn't get any of those male 'requirements' from my posts, 7Seven, and it's hardly my fault if other women think to make such judgments. In all of my long-term relationships, I've made it perfectly clear that I'm career-minded and would be happy to support a man in being a house-husband and stay-at-home father, or in other endeavours (as my mother was willing to support my father through acting school, although he chose not to take up the offer). And your argument that men who really dislike women and make sweeping generalisations about their 'kind' will never find a partner? Of course this is rubbish, I can see many of my friends at this very moment embarking upon relationships with men who see them as simply weak but 'sweet' little things with all their darling little foibles...some women seem to genuinely aspire to be with someone whose odd view of women reflects pleasingly against her own skewed self-image of one of the lovely but flawed 'weaker sex', and one of the veins of misogyny is, of course, the odd view that seduction of all women can be achieved by the same slick means, by following textbook types of flirtation. So it is likely that many misogynists will be womanisers on the surface but if they came face to face with a woman of some strength in a real relationship, they'd be frightened, quite frankly.

 

Excellent post, particularly as you bigged me up!

I personally don't bother with certain people on here as it's just not worth it. Those types will never see any viewpoint other than their own so it's not worth anyones while entertaining them and giving them the attention they crave. Likewise I will never respond to or engage people who insult me in a way that is far too personal and unnecessary - racist emails for example, they go STRAIGHT in my "trash" folder!

Some people have far too much time on their hands (my excuse is that I'm on maternity leave and up all hours of the day and night with a baby!) A certain someone from here has traced back my internet use to a year ago and plastered on this site, and has recently posted my comments on this site on ANOTHER site - how sad and pathetic is that? I have no respect for people like that so I don't want to hear their opinion as it truly isn't worthy!

I believe there's room for crudeness, eye candy and deeper discussion...but a bit of balance would be nice. Hopefully that way more people would post rather than lurk with boredom.

My 2 penneth!

 

That's bang out of line...some people are really sad.