Just had "the talk" with my man

About exclusiviness and our fears about it. I thought it was needed despite the fact neither one of us are dating other people. We went out for a nice lunch and decided we are happy together and to make it official. Despite the fact we are both divorced, have lots of child responsibilities, and that it is his first time being in a real relatiosnship with a white woman(his previous one was a few dates in highs school).

My only two condidtions are 1. He eases his mom into it and 2. we take it S-L-O-W with his younger 2 kids. So now I am happy

 

yay for you!!

 

Yeah, best part is he is younger, 4 years, but not young enough to want to eat ring-dings for breakfast and watch Saturday morning cartoons like the last guy I was with.

 

nothing wrong with a ringding, lol. :wink:

 

Great, bosoxlady! Good luck to you and your man.

 

Thanks nate...it is really nice to be with someone who you have a good friendship with first.