Jealousy

A lady with whom I've recently become acquainted informed me that she has become the recipient of jealous feelings from someone she used to see. Something that has left her perplexed as the "relationship" wasn't going anywhere and ended years ago.

Anyway, I was curious as to how some of you have dealt with jealousy from within or others who've crossed your path?

 

That's a great question. I have a male friend right now who is jealous if I date someone - so I just do not tell them. It's a case of Nun-yo-biznezz. As far as with a partner, hmm, that's much more challenging as there would be some insecurities to address.....

 

He obviously wants a promotion.

 

Ahahah that is very likely the case, but he's married. I think if he was given an opportunity though, he would slime up and take it.

 

Given that you inspire me to the highest virtues of moral grace, I could never make a similar transgression.

 

i have the same problem as athena, been friends with a bloke for 8 years but if im with someone he calls me all the names under the sun

my ex boyfriend is forever looking for me on networking sites, had to set all my profiles to private so he cant see who i chat to

 

Sonnyshao's Technique for Jealousy

If I maybe jealous of anyone I was in a relationship with, I'd see other people.
Simple as that. When jealous, look for a date for Friday night.

 

Nobody has ever been jelous vvith me
I like a bit of jelousy, it makes me feel desired.

 

Lends credence to the theory that man/woman friendships are not really that, but a situation where one (usually the man) wants to fuck the other but is biding his/her time or just enjoying being as close to the other person as possible.

 

Just curious, but do women get more jealous after they are broken up with, or after they break up with somebody and see that the person they broke up with immediately moved on and is perfectly happy and content without them?

 

I think it might be the case when a woman's pride is offended. cause if it's not, there is no sense in being jelous after breaking up with a man.

 

I think it's a good thing! If your man is not jelous with you, it means, he trusts you! I would appreciate that.

 

Hey Saty,
Jealousy is normal to a certain extent, but we have to learn to keep it under control, and we also have to learn not to provoke it in our partner, it goes both ways. I'd be perplexed too in your friend's place, but maybe he still has strong feelings, who knows. I think we always know pleasant, flattering jealousy from the unpleasant and disrespectful kind. My ex-husband used to get jealous for absolutely no reason if I went out to dinner with my friends... but it didn't cross his mind that I could easily find a side lover since he was so selfish in bed... I don't know, people make no sense sometimes. How I dealt with it? Left him, and two years later I'm still happy I don't have to put up with him anymore.

 

I need to see more of you Mosk.

 

I know... with 5 classes and work it's no joke... I'm so run down... I'll try to check in every now and then. Hugs.

 

OK.

 

It hurts more if the other person broke up with you... if YOU broke up with them, it was for a reason, right? And if they moved on and are happy, what does your ass have to complain about???

 

I don't mean a lot jelous. I have almost only male friends so If i met a very jelous man it vvould me a hell ... but a bit vvould make me feel desired. A normal jelousy I mean. VVhen I vvas vvith my ex and vve vvent to the club, ppl touched my ass and he didn't even notice :smt090. Not that I vvanted him to make a fight or something, but at least vvatch them like "u better don't touch my girl again" lol. It's stupid, I knovv.

 

ohhh i see. no, that wasnt good of him to act this way. I wouldnt like that either! I dont like indifference, it's killing.

 

Okay, i thought so. I've known a few girls who actually got jealous because the guy they got rid of didn't miss them or feel bad at all lol.