I agree . its sad to see guys whine. If they sat around on why the MAY have gotten turned down or get better at they're Congo then maybe they'll get a little lovingMen can get sex easier than women. Pull up to any street corner and you got it. Lol I say the lonely men need to man up and stop playing victim and acting butt hurt for having a few turn downs. That's life. Can't blame an individual for having a preference in looks. Who appears average to you doesn't necessarily appear average to the next man. All black men are Devine though. None should go without.