Is it about Sex , or Love ?

Hello guys ,

could you please let me know by your experience if most of white females that you meet are only interested in sleeping with you ( one night stand or fuck buddy ).

I am really tied of all these white females who want just sex with me. could you guys tell me if you encountered the same problem. I really love white females but i won't let or allow anyone to use me as a sex object.

I don't know if it is about my country of origine but guys could you let me know if it is case on your part of the world and how many of them ( in percentage ) ?

I am so hurt at the moment to keep on typing this message.

 

Well there are women who want sex, and women who want something more. Keep looking. You'll find what you want.

 

Hey man ,
what the f*** this picture is about :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
very funny :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
i think i should go to be as it is 6h08 am in the morning here.
May be i am becoming blind or so ..... 8)

SonnyShao , looking is not a problem but for the last two years i am
falling for the wrong ones and i wonder why i attract this type of girls :?

 

You sound sweet. I think that MOST woman do want more. You'll find one for you. I went thru my wild phase before I started dating my man. We were FRIENDS for a long tie first, and then I realized that I was ready for more. So tyr being friends first.

 

You sound sweet. I think that MOST woman do want more. You'll find one for you. I went thru my wild phase before I started dating my man. We were FRIENDS for a long tie first, and then I realized that I was ready for more. So tyr being friends first.

 

Exactly! All these women can't leave you alone. I feel your pain.

 

Physical attraction is always the motive to strike a conversation. Surely, no one knows your personality until they've gotten to know you. Unless of course, you choose to walk down the street and, make a spectacle of yourself.

It could be quite possible that your conversation is very lite in which, it doesn't escalate to anything more than sex.

There are times many have boyfriends and just want to have a fling. Women have the same desires as Men however, they a taught to be more reserved. So, they offer signs to draw your attention.

It’s obvious if a Woman takes in upon herself to compliment you based on your looks or body structure that she is not concerned with your intellect.

At least, not as of yet. :wink:

Cheers!

 

I think sometimes that the tables have turned and there are many women out there doing the same things that they used to bitch about men doing. They may be talking about wanting a relationship but then go for the sex. Sometimes it's a matter of wanting to try things out and if something is lacking then they keep walking.

Seems to me that many people are rather screwed up about what they really want and need. And the truth is that many get scared and run when they really find what they do want.

I don't really know what the answer is. I think we could all talk about well if you have sex right off then it's a recipe for disaster, but then we all know that's not necessarily true. There really isn't any magic formula...even though there are all sorts of things said (wait until x number of date, or whatever)

Things are odd at this point in time (IMO) With technology we can talk about so many things and know so much about someone before we are even sitting face to face with them. It's sortof like walking into a first date as date number 20.

Ok I'm rambling....

I think the bottom line is that it comes down to things that have been said on other threads...it's about what you are putting out there. If what you keep getting is the same type of person being attracted to you...then you need to shift what you are doing and/or what your mindset is about things. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places.

 

hey maghalil,

Cant help thinking a lot might have lot to do with where you currently live: South Africa.Black men are the forbidden fruit for the whitewomen in SA.So white women who do like you are less likely to openly date you.They might just want to secretly experiment without their families knowing. Might be wrong though...

 

It goes both ways.There are lots of men that get lies to by men who claim they want something serious while all they really want is some sex.
And yea we women are tired of that too.

 

Thanks guys for your replies ...
last saturday i refused to have sex with her , and she did not appreciate it.
At the moment i am looking for somebody to settle with.

Swaziking you made a good point about the "forbidden fruit" but i won't be give up. (I will be moving out of Africa very soon , hope to find better people out there).

At the moment i have another date with the same girl next saturday the 6 september 2008. Hope it wont turn out to a disaster as last saturday. i really don't understand why women will backup these kind of behave because they had bad experience with men previously.

In My opinion the person honesty count more then her physical appearance , i will no more allow any lady to use me as her sex toy.

FYI , she is a colleague from work and she is from austria. so we had divers chat before our last saturday date .

 

just to add my own:

 

It's an unwritten law that says you'll always end up finding the opposite of what you're looking for when it comes to the opposite sex. When I wnted to find someone to "play" with, I found nothing but men who wanted to be my boyfriend. When I wanted a boyfriend, I kept finding those guys who just wanted to have sex with me. When I wasn't looking, and least expected it, I met my boyfriend.

Your area probably has a lot to do with it, though I can't say for sure since I don't know much about it. But area can play a huge role in the type of people you meet.

 

a weird sense of humour.....LMAOOOOO

NIGGA PLEASE!!!!!!

 

Just an update, i just had a great time with her and she seems more emotional at the moment. i will say she is starting to understand me. As far as today's date is concerned, it was 10 times better than my last week experience.

We had just got very close to each other, and a bit messing around with each other. No more than that, as I really want us to take our time.
And again thanks to the members who sent positive comments.

Have a nice weekend.

Mag

 

Good, glad you had fun