Is being a thickgirl a race thing?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by kenny_g, Aug 21, 2005.

  1. 7Seven

    7Seven New Member

    There we go again. Insinuating more rubbish? I never stated that I did not like women with more arse. Where did you get that? I said I like fit, athletic women. Being "thick" is subjective at best, and makes no damn sense what so ever. I never said Beyonce was overweight. I did say she was heading that way. But I know, you do not agree with me. Overweight, is overweight, is overweight. No matter how you tag with fancy phrases.

    Jennifer Lopez and Hallie Berry are two women who are fit and athletic. They work out and keep their bodies tight. They have hit their target weight and work at to keep it there, and they look great.
     
  2. lainarain

    lainarain New Member

    I tend to agree with 7. There's a difference between overweight and having some titties and ass. If you're a size 2 or 24, if you have these - it's gonna show. Some women have fat and think that that gives them curves.

    However, some of the super skinny-ass white girls that are getting breast and butt implants may just need to eat a couple of cheeseburgers.
     
  3. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Agreed.
     
  4. kenny_g

    kenny_g New Member

    That is exactly what I am talking about 7seven, you are sayin
    beyonce is headed that way and she is no where near it.....what are you
    looking at.


    The fact of the matter is the choice to work out makes you healthy or unhealthy. Not your size! If that was true as I said all big people wouldn't make it to age 40 before falling out and dying.

    I brought up this post because it is true most black men preference
    in women is not as high as white men's preference. Thats why alot
    of us date alot of big girls, whitegirls, asian girls, latin girls, skinny girls,
    etc. You get 100 white men together with their woman, most of them
    are going to be similar as oppose to 100 black men....Think about it.
     
  5. 7Seven

    7Seven New Member

    THAT IS THE PROBLEM RIGHT THERE. You do not demand better from your women, so you have no right to complain about 'sistas.' Yes, black men in States are easily oppressed mentally by their women, YES DAMNIT, I SAID IT. Beyonce is getting fat, if she marries Jay-Z she will get fat, I GUARANTEE IT, she has poor eating habits. Just remember what I said Kenny.
     
  6. lainarain

    lainarain New Member

    I did "think about it." I do wonder why I often see ugly-ass, beat-up, nasty, trashy ww with (some) bm. (okay, they could be beautiful on the inside.) Unfortunately, these bm are w/ these ww simply because they are white. Just because you like white ladies, why do you have to lower your standards. Your choices may not be as diverse, but (if I was a man) I'd rather be picky and wake up alone rather than waking up to some fat, not thick, pasty-skinned, white girl with greasy, stringy hair.

    Why shouldn't 7 hold out for his choice of beauty? (never thought I'd be your ally)
     
  7. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    He's got you here, Kenny. Think about it.
     
  8. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    I bet I'm a lot picker than Seven, even if it doesn't seem that way.

    But, if being a picky prick means maintaining dignity, then I'll take it.
     
  9. Iffy'swifey

    Iffy'swifey New Member

    I don't think anybody should ever lower their standards or settle for second best (I certainly wouldn't), but I think we should all assess why we have these standards.

    Sometimes we get an idea in our head and we just stick with it, even though things have changed, including ourselves. I think it's good to review ourselves and what we want out of life and the people in our lives.
     
  10. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Noted.
     
  11. fly girl

    fly girl Well-Known Member

    Oh....My....Fucking....Gawd!

    That has got to be some of the most judgemental, ignorant, misogynistic bulllshit I ever heard out of a woman on this board.
     
  12. fly girl

    fly girl Well-Known Member

    You can maintain standards and be picky without being a prick. I have never gotten that vibe out of you.
     
  13. kenny_g

    kenny_g New Member

    Does anybody get what Iam saying here...From some of your responses
    I don't see that you are getting what Iam saying and what Im tellin 7seven. Please (not to be ignorant.) go back and take a look at my posts
    on this subject, and read more carefully what Iam saying because right
    now I don't have a response to your responses.
     
  14. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Yeah, we got it. Plenty of us have gave our opinions on thickness in regards to race already.
     
  15. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    It's still true, whether you like it or not.
     
  16. SardonicGenie

    SardonicGenie New Member

    Your responses to me and others would make me assume otherwise.
     
  17. fly girl

    fly girl Well-Known Member

    It is called mirroring. I like to use it on people. I mirror back to them what they give off to me.
     
  18. fly girl

    fly girl Well-Known Member

    Bullshit. You have no idea why anyone else dates the people they do by looking at them. You are making assumptions based on your own beliefs.
     
  19. 7Seven

    7Seven New Member

    Do you wish for me to speak in proper English tongue? I guarantee, it will confound you beyond comprehension.
     
  20. Iffy'swifey

    Iffy'swifey New Member

    Steady on old bean what what!

    I have a simply spiffing and wizard idea, lets all be fine and dandy!
     

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