Is a WW Racist Because She Refuses To Date BM?

The only persons defiantly making up the meaning of racism, are those hypocritically tossing about the term.

 

i know!

 

Obviously, the connotation of the word escapes you -- you are confusing "racism" with "prejudice." There is a big difference between the two.

Racism is meant to hurt your autonomous and monetary wealth, not other personal convictions: Chiefly speaking, WW finding you attractive.

 

(I asked whether you thought it was immoral, not racist, but I'll respond to your comments anyway)

Of course people within a particular race won't all look exactly alike, but they will share many characteristic features, else they wouldn't be indentifiable as a race. People of unmixed West African ancestry, for example, ALL have kinky hair and dark skin. If someone is not attracted to dark skin and kinky hair, then they effectively rule out ALL West Africans as romantic/sexual partners. Is that immoral?

 

I don't know what to say, man. Racist or not, the chick just stopped digging you at some point. It happens to everyone.

 

WITH ONE HELL OF AN ASS....Not Serena-juicy...but very good...I could put her racist feelings aside for one night....man if I lost that I'd be pissed...we don't even have to get into the race stuff...just the ass...she looks like someone I went to school with except her hair is a little darker.

 

Any black man(if you really are one) who writes or even believes something like this is in denial, or probably has some sort of brain damage. If you really believe that most white women aren't attracted to black men, then this site, as well as many other interracial sites (fetishist or not) wouldn't even exist, and furthermore, there wouldn't be as many interracial couples today in the world, now would they?

And, before, during, and after slavery, there were interracial couples between black men and white women, but I guess you happen to know how most of all white women truly feel about black men regardless, based on what they told you, which seems to be enough for you, since none of them ever lie, I suppose. :roll:

I got it... there is no such thing as a racist white woman, if she doesn't want to date a black man. :roll:

Maybe you are one of those men who don't feel 'good enough' for one (if you are a black man), or think that most of us don't, so you defend racist white women.

The racist site would love you.

 

Chosen, Pey, and tuck are the only ones making any kind of sense out of this. All the others who disagreed with them are using skewed logic, especially when some of them are the ones outraging Ugly Ducklings/feminazis and so forth.

 

This paragraph is stupid and contradictory. 'Well, I guess it might be racist in a strict sense, blah-blah-blah, but maybe it's not.' And, for the record, hardly any man in here ever said anything about ' never being attracted to black women or women from other races'. If you had actually read their posts, you would see that they choose white women over other ethnic groups for their own personal reasons, like natural selection/attraction, bad personal experiences, cultural interests, and so on.

Yes, he can, because it's still bigotry either way. Duh.

 

Um, genius, he mentioned how racist this girl was/is more than once, and as for her attraction, well, it didn't stop her racist ass from being his personal slut for 3 years, now did it? Coming here and telling black men things like this IS insulting to not only black men, but white women who are genuinely interested in black men, as well as IR couples.

It's nice to know how charming you think Pey's personality is by the way.

Dumbass, nobody is forced to think that mixed babies are ugly, and if you are a slut for a black man, but think that mixed babies are ugly, then you shouldn't be having sex with a black man at all, especially if she maybe half-black herself, and not even know it.

 

Oh! Sniper shots eh!? Let me be the first to state, critical thinking and logic escapes most of your rhetoric: Simply speaking, your deductive arguments are pitiful at best. Most of which are the convenient and shallow Straw Man: The standard euphemisms, the completely distorted concept of what you are auguring for and against. Consider for a moment, that there can be many reasons for WW not wanting to day BM -- which have nothing to do with with Racism.

Racism is not difficult to understand: It's rubbish ideologues attached to labels, and the labels are substitutes for critical thinking. This is what they call intellectual myopia, because with an external force and influence one can hypocritically espouse programmed thoughts. But consider this for a moment: There are WW whom are Poles, Czechs and Russians who are not just stunning, but spectacularly stunning and without hesitation would consider me as a suitable "mate." Contrary to that, there can be an Ugly Ducking who is repulsed by my sight; their reasons are relative to many given situations.

Of course now, you sound like one of those disgruntled "Nice Guys", when really, they are atrociously moronic when dealing with women. It seems that this mentality is prevalent amongst BM who want to label WW racist for choosing not to date them. These men are not only horrible with BW, they are laughably horrible with WW. And if you do not like these concepts, I have others.

 

An interesting question.

The truth is that the vast majority of people of all races live in their little social/economic bubbles, and their preferences have more to do with societal conditioning than actual "racism".

I also think racism is being confused with racial preferences. And people are entitled to their preferences, whether they are economical, racial, sexual, religious, etc.

It should really be a matter, not of their preferences, but of whether the person stating the preferences actually brings anything to the table. As it turns out, the women with preferences against black men more than likely have little or nothing to offer you as a black man. You are simply better without them and you should be thankful they saved you your time.

I liked the guy who said it's not about the 95% not interested in black men, but the 5% that may be. So that means, out of 1,000 women, there are 50 that are interested in you. And 50 women is more than enough for you to become extremely selective with.

Quality not quantity.

Why empower mere pussy with the ability to be "racist"? I laugh at such an idea. LOL

 

And let's not forget the women outside the 5% whose preferences change daily like their panties. As well the ones who believe that you are the exception to the rule to their preferences (just as you may have found the WW that is the exception to the rule of your preferences)...

 

I am a 28 year old ww who has dated black men for about 4 years now including one serious relationship. that lasted almost 3 years, but before that I never dated a black man because I never met any that clicked with me or that I was attracted to. I don't think you should shame ww into dating bm. yet at the sametime I do think it's a beautiful thing, but it is not for everyone. us who enjoy being with people from different ethnicity's need to respect other peoples preferences too. in my circle of close friends I am the only one who has dated a black man. currently I am seeing a white man because I liked him and we made a connection instantly so does that make me racist? we should all respect free will.

 

so if you are dating a wm now, why come to a wW/bm site telling us how to feel? not all ww are like you and many say they dont date bm because they are not attracted to them--and while that may sound like a preference it is a prejudice because dont all look alike

 

LOL Of course not, but people who are of the same race (American blacks are phenotypically variable and are thus not a true race) DO share common physical traits, ELSE THEY WOULD NOT BE IDENTIFIABLE AS A RACE. If someone is not attracted to people with straight hair, they effectively rule out all whites as sexual/romatic partners; if someone is not attracted to people with epicanthal folds, then they rule out all east asians as sexual/romantic partners; if someone is not attracted to kinky hair and dark skin, then they rule out all blacks as romantic/sexual partners. Does that make them bad people, tuckerreed?

 

sure it does, a person ruling out all people with straight hair--what next?

now they may do it for dating but before they used that same argument to rule them out of jobs, housing, land, and other areas of life.

we accept soft personal racism because well we say it is a preference, but if it is involved in so other part of life we call it discrimination

 

if they rule out people based on appearances, i simply consider it their loss. they're entitled to their superficiality.

not everybody has the ability to appreciate or recognize beauty/good looks across the board, and it's not their fault.

 

Let me guess, you're thinking critical by saying that there are many reasons for white women not to date black men, and you're a black man yourself? Whatever.

You're a fine one to talk about 'shallow' yourself, when you can't even argue a point without some lame philosophical babble.

Like what? Let's see them.

I never said that this wasn't true, did I?

And yet, you want to label white women 'femicunts' and 'Ugly Ducklings' who choose to date you, and then come in here and whine about how 'controlling' and 'psycho' the ones you choose to date are all the time. Good one, genius.

 

Good question.