Interracial Relationships in America

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by wtarshi, Sep 2, 2009.

  1. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    Just after Obama was elected last year a friend and I had a conversation about interracial relationships. He was under the belief that because America elected their first black president, more white women would start dating black men. So seeing we are nearing the one year anniversary of Obama's presidency (yes I know its 2 months away) I'm curious, is this the case. Have things started to change??? Was this a fair assumption on my friends behalf???
     
  2. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

    I am not so sure if the election of Obama will have a positive or negative effect on the prevalence of such relationships. It seems like a culture will have its way regardless of what is occurring in the halls of power. To be honest, I'd prefer to look at Obama's ascendancy as an example of black success through the use of a cunning intellectual ability and excellent skill set, rather than the stereotypical means (sports, music) typically associated with being black and talented. Whether that turns on a higher percentage of non-black women is incidental to my concerns, and besides many African-American men are nothing like Obama.
     
  3. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    Slowly but surely, yes.


    In my city as well as other places I've observed, it's becoming like the crack epidemic of the 1980's.:smt003
     
  4. mama

    mama Well-Known Member

    That's a nice way of putting it Tony. :mrgreen:
     
  5. dj4monie

    dj4monie New Member

    +1

    Another case of 2+2 does not equal 4
     
  6. Chandarah

    Chandarah New Member

    Because Obama is not American.....:cool:
     
  7. dj4monie

    dj4monie New Member

    Now, now we won't have you repeating any American Wing Nut Birther Nonsense....
     
  8. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    :|
     
  9. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    I believe he was born in Hawaii Nouharel
     
  10. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    lol...as always TS, you have a way with your words...!!! :D
     
  11. wtarshi

    wtarshi Well-Known Member

    Saty, there is no doubting Obama's intellectual ability and skill set, he wouldn't be where he is today without them. I think the point my friend was trying to make is that women who were afraid to date outside of their race before the election may feel the acceptance to do so now there is a black man in power.
     
  12. lippy

    lippy Well-Known Member

    IR in america is evolving but i would be hard pressed to say that it is because of obama...america is just now seeing it's first significant generation of bi-racials enter adulthood...men like obama are not the norm and if anything he and michelle represent the black community as a solid family with 2 beautiful girls and let's not forget michelle's mother is also part of the package...

    michelle's brother is married to a ww and they reside in oregon...this was played down during the election and they have stayed away from the spotlight...

    as far as a growing number if IR couples in america...yes, it is happening...i see it everywhere now...sometimes i find myself just wanting to take pictures and catalog all of the beautiful couples i see when i travel...i think the increase has more to do with the way women are evolving in education, careers and self reliance...women used to worry about being shunned from their families...now there has been a power shift and the fear has been diluted...
     
  13. fly girl

    fly girl Well-Known Member

    I went to school with lots of biracial kids. Best girlfriends was mexican/german, black/korean, black-cuban/white, and one regular ol white girl LOL.

    During these conversations I feel like I must not have even grown up in the same country as the rest of yall.
     
  14. Tony Soprano

    Tony Soprano Moderator

    Is that really you Orly Taitz???:smt042
     
  15. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    LMAO!! Love this post. :smt023
     
  16. LA

    LA Well-Known Member

    Y?
     
  17. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Because she was making a joke.
     
  18. Chandarah

    Chandarah New Member

    Thank u! what type of smily should I use to make it clear that I am joking sometimes?? seems like some people are not getting it, even when I think it is absolutly clear.
     
  19. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Any of these would do the trick, though I thought the cool one was self-explanatory. LOL.

    :smt081 :rolleyes: ;) :D And you get the idea.
     
  20. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

    Some people here are on the dim side, no worries.

     

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