Insecurity question

I'm a single guy, have no experience in relationships, and never had sex. I never approached a girl because I'm really scared of getting rejected. I can't trust taking that risk.

What can I do to get over my insecurities and start giving girls chances?

 

http://www.whitewomenblackmen.com/forum/showthread.php?t=10538

 

The only way to get over your insecurities is by learning to love yourself for who you are.....it's corny, but it's true. It took me a long time to figure that out (years and years).

Once you love yourself, you'll have the confidence you need to get out there.....insecurities can be overcome, if you're willing to be truthful with yourself and work on your inner you.

 

Most people are more insecure than they let show. The insecurities probably don't reflect the reality, either. Talk to any "great catch" and they'll tell you a hundred things they hate about themselves.

Is there any place where you feel that you belong, where you feel comfortable connecting to people? That might be a starting point.

Also, post a good picture of yourself so that we girls can start complimenting you.

 

Much better, Saty! :smt038

 

"I have not failed. I've just found 10, 000 ways that won't work."
***********888888]famous quote by Thomas Edison

This is the kind of attitude that will help you in all aspects of life, especially women. Don't worry one second about rejection, it is simply a temporary step on your overall path to success. I know it is easier said than done, but if you can truly embrace this philosophy it will help you immeasurably.

Good luck
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