In a total FUNK

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by stiletoes, May 23, 2009.

  1. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Not in a bad mood, but a BLAH mood...

    So many changes happening right now, and not sure where life is taking me.
     
  2. karmacoma.

    karmacoma. Well-Known Member

    Sorry to hear that.
     
  3. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Thanks....
    1. My son is moving out
    2. My daughter is graduating in 16 days, which means a family visit
    3. Moving for my job in july, two hours away from most of my friends
    4. Not sure where I want my relationship to go
    5. My best friend is in the crisis of her life

    Just trying to concentrate minute by minute, focus on my work and do what I can to stay centered.
     
  4. vanilla2chai

    vanilla2chai New Member

    Hang in there girl.

    My life is the dumps at the moment and full of uncertainty and confusion.

    I have been lying on my couch crying for about three weeks straight.

    I decided to take a little time off work, go away and treat myself to some relaxation therapy.

    Today I got a haircut and my nails done.

    Go do something nice for yourself. Get pampered, go to a movie, anything that will make you feel special.

    If none of that works.......drink until you pass out :smt036
     
  5. Bookworm616

    Bookworm616 Well-Known Member

    Well, I hope both of you get out of your funks. Vanilla2chai, that's excellent advice!! Especially the drinking part. :smt101

    When I get in a funk, I usually end up watching Friends. You know I'm in a funk when I start quoting from Friends. LOL. That's what I do. Friends is like my comfy blanket and teddy bear. ;)

    Other things I do when I'm in a funk: when it's not winter, I'll go someplace where I can "commune" with nature. In Chicago, that would usually mean a forest preserve by my house, or the Chicago Botanic Gardens. Being around nature and leaving the rest of civilization behind has a calming, relaxing affect on me.

    And if those don't work, then it's going to a club and drinking shots. :smt023
     
  6. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Been cleaning and packing all day. think I will take a nap. My BFF wants to come over, but I don't want to do a darn thing. Seeing my BF tongiht, need to get my strength up for that conversation..............
     

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