If more american Black women were like this

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nbtJIZcOqQI

then u'd see less Black man in interracial relationships....

 

Depends on the BM.... I think TheChosenOne broke it down beautifuly in the "attraction" thread.

 

I know a lot of black women that are like that sister in the video, I think a few brothers out there are just looking for excuses. I havr stated it before just do you and don't make excuses for the type of women you like. You don't have to talk bad about a sister to get with a woman of another and if your women was into talking bad about women of other races you should be wary.

 

hardly, why would we go for her?

 

Who knows a lot of brother display self hatred when it comes to getting with women of different races, when there is really no need to.

 

What's the old saying, "Stereotypes come from somewhere." The key is not to prejudge. I personally see a truckload of insecurity from some sisters. On the other hand, I see sisters who are strong and don't have the insecurity complex. They're just harder to find. The woman in the video stated that it partly comes down to them wanting to be white. I wish it was that simple. This complex comes from a number of places. Some of our music, for example, downplays black women into the ground. I don't want to come off like C. Delores Tucker or anything, but she wasn't a total nut. People say this stuff has no impact, but I sit back and watch people and I wonder.

Fuck a nigga All I need a nigga for is to pay my bills
and the all time favorite that wasn't stated, niggas ain't shit

Some sisters do look down on brothers too. Some people wonder where this came from. Let me say something, black males have been downplayed importance-wise since the 1980's. That's when it really took off. It's always been in place but it got ridiculous once Reagan hit office. Doesn't make sense? Do the research. And some sisters jumped right on that bandwagon. Sad but true. This is not all black women by any means.

 

still not sure what this women has that would turn an IR from IR?? some one explain?