If I may ask the ladies....

Your approach and your thinking are both ass-backward......Women are personally turned-off by the expression.......The term sounds like it was devised by a cheap non-committal man.........So much more can be accomplished without even talking about it.....Don't discuss plans for sex, Don't contract for sex....Just spend a little money and time to take her out to dinner, create a relaxed climate to make her laugh and feel comfortable and you will be surprised how through her appreciation, things just naturally happen........

 

you don't give women very much credit arch..."most" intelligent women know what a man is wanting after dinner...after you did your charming...it is what it is no matter how you dress it up...these are the following choices:

relationship sex
friends with benefit sex
booty call with no benefits
one time hit it sex

:smt023

 

It also helps to be dark, handsome, charming and know when to flash that beautiful smile, and have some interesting conversations that usher in relaxation. In order to hit the right spot, he has to aim carefully. In other words, he has to be an expert Archman...like the guy to your left.

 

Well some compensation is in order for the visit

 

Okafor's Law. I must remember that one. In fact, a friend of mine broke up with his wife. Yet, once a year for the past 11 years, they have secretly met and made love to each other. It doesn't matter that they are with someone else. He says that no other woman can "throw it" the way she does.

 

Wow...some people Jeezz

 

:smt005men are so funny...this thread has become quite a contradiction or perhaps just varied approaches...opinions...outcomes...perceptions...i always find it entertaining...the most interesting piece is that two people engaging in sex sometimes don't view it the same way...

it is very likely that raul's ex continues to pursue him because she would really like something more to come of the relationship...it may not be a booty call to her...it could be that she hopes sleeping over turns into breakfast the next morning...going for a bike ride...perhaps another romp that lazy sunday afternoon followed by what is your schedule this week? ...let's get together again?

the best thing to do is to talk about it...i don't believe in charades or guess what i want type of relationships...i think if two people are adults they should be able to express what they want and see if the other person is on the same page...

 

Agreed Lipstick. No games, or sneaky tactics. Just out and the open, and decide from there.

 

:smt050smart and handsome

 

Lippy...You penned this so right. I tried to give my little ole 1 point rep but it said this...

You must spread some rep around before giving it to Lippy again.

But keep on keeping it real girl.:smt026

 

got check on the booty for a retouch every now and then

probably didnt catch the signal or he passed because he thought you was just being nice and friendly. That is a whole new thread in itself

 

It ties into the whole Women don't know how to flirt thread lol

 

awww need to go check that out....LOL. if a woman like a man...here is a suggest ladies so he can catch a clue that you like him...

Approach him and say " I saw you and I just want to suck the skin off your dick"

That will give him a hint

 

:smt106 LMAO...If he don't get the hint then...he ain't breathing.

 

or his name is mikesandy

 

Did it change any? LOL

 

I just don't see a reason to get pissed off by a rejection. I find that immature and narcissistic. Like everybody is supposed to want you?

The poll is fine.

 

To the OP. If a man did reject me, it would be fine. Especially in the situation described, a hook up is nothing serious.

 

Yeah, well I really wasn't looking for dating advice, but ummm, thanks....