If I may ask the ladies....

Are you completely taken aback by a Man that would turn down a late night booty call? I'll be quick in the explanation as to why I have come to this question being asked at this time....

Basically, I'm passed that whole idea when it comes to just sex. I don't just have sex anymore just to say I did. I'm not unattractive and I could get a lady to come home most any night of the week, or so I'm told anyway. I'll be the first to admit my skills at pulling a woman out of a bar for a one nighter aren't as good as some other dudes for the simple fact that it comes off kinda sleazy to me. Not that I haven't done it, but that was cool at 22, not so cool at 32.

So to the booty calls (or just sexual advances in general), I still get them from exes or just hot women who want a new "experience". Sorry, NOT INTERESTED; and so I also have this "friend". A really good friend actually. She has gotten into that "pattern" of giving me a call whenever she gets an itch. I really don't like it because that has never been the way our friendship has functioned. Our personal situation is besides my current point though.

I simply don't want to have sex without a full on relationship. That's where I'm at right now. I could, but I don't want to, and this seems to really PISS SOME WOMEN OFF! Like they can't take no for an answer or something. I know ladies are raised to believe their vagina is a gift from the gods, but come on!!! Suddenly I start to think of Medusa's place in Greek Mythology and what the Gorgons actually represented.... hmm.....


So I simply ask. Are you guilty of this? Why are you so put out by a man passing at a chance to knock the bottom out, for whatever reason he may have. Or if not, how would you react to the situation? Dudes get tired once in a while too, ya know. There are many reasons. It shouldn't be such a big fucking deal. Women turn men away like it's a second job!


If you take the poll, please think it out and be honest. This only works when people really think about how they would respond or have in the past. Thanks

 

OOoops, I voted before I actually read your whole thing. I never made advances on a guy for a booty call.

I have because I have been interested, but again, not for a booty call, but because I wanted to get to know him.
If a guy pass on all the clear signs that I'm interested, I don't see it as a personal offence, If I'm not his type, then it doesn't matter what I do, I'm still not his type.. so why fret over it???

 

Well to clarify, a booty call can only happen if you knew the person in advance. Picking up a random in a bar or club OR just dropping signals to a man for the purpose of coitus is a completely different situation but still applies to the question I'm asking. So it's ok to vote even if it's not in regards to a booty call. That is my person situation, but I'm just polling to see how a woman reacts to a man declining their clear advances, or a sexual nature.


No not thirsty at all bro.

 

i have a couple of exes that do this throughout the year...check-in...how are you doing...are you seeing anyone? why does a man think that if you don't have another man right up under you 24/7 that it must mean you are dying to be with him again? or he feels the need to send you a new picture of his dick like that is going to make you want to rush over to his house and drop your panties...

rroyce...have your ex call mine and they can hook up:smt081

 

When I was available, I did not pursue a man like that. Never felt the need to. So I didn't vote in the poll because there was no option for women like me.

 

Lol! Just in case you forgot what it looks like?

I don't do booty calls, but if I got turned down for sex in a relationship, I'd be a bit butthurt about it >.>

It's not clear whether you take her up on the offer or not? Gotta say though, if you do then say no or stop complaining

 

:smt005im so glad someone else said this has happened to them...cracks me up...

 

Some women can't take sex rejection

 

Uhm.. ok????
What happened?
Did she get mad?

 

I wasn't even talking about my experiences FG Lol...But since you inquired, actually yes she did get mad. A woman I know expected me to just be happy that her pussy was being offered to me. I wasn't interested sorry lol..

 

A lot of cats think "once I hit it, I can hit it again" (to a point I've actually found this to be true)

 

In Nigeria, the expressed view (in bold) is called "Okafor's Law." The idea that if you have done, you can always do it again. It seems the law has been proven many times over by male scientists across culture.

 

Ah, ok.. Of Course there are women that get mad about being rejected. Just as there are men who get mad when they get rejected.
Some people just cant take it.

I once had a guy (stranger at a bar never the less) call me a "fucking whore" when I rejected him..... LOL. I said "thats right, everybody but you":-D

 

The point of the whole thread...

I shouldn't have made it a public poll. I just want to see how many women can admit that such an situation would piss them off to some extent.

XBoxGirl stated that I didn't make it clear whether I caved to her advances or not. I must admit that I have been weak at some points, I will admit that. I have chosen to no longer to fall victim to her advances, however. Something larger may come of this relationship as of yet, I just don't know how to proceed from this point.

 

since you had to put it out there raul...if lippy flys all the way to brooklyn to see your handsome self then yes she was pissed that you weren't willing to give her some...i had to go buy new batteries at the front hotel desk:smt018

 

no means no regardless of gender. some people just dont like being told no. i have an ex i cant even speak to, nor do i want to, because he pulled the same shit even after i got with my baby. i felt sorry for him because emotionally i was the only person in his life he could talk to, but i stopped that shit real fast after the drama that went down with us. then i got with my bf and the dude still stries to get with me by calling my friends and its been over two years since we broke up. male or female that shit is lame and just makes you look like a loser. theres plent yof people to fuck without bothering an ex if they dont want it.