If all you had in common was mind blowing great sex..

And then you met someone who was awesome. But the sex was horrible. Would you continue having sex with the other person? Would you be able to stay in a committed relationship with someone who was awful in bed? Or would you stray?

Men- Is great sex more powerful to you than being with a woman who was better suited for you in all other ways? How important is sex to you in a relationship?

Ladies?

Just food for thought...nothing that I am going through. lol

 

If we were compatible in the most important ways, the mediocre sex would not be a reason to break it off. I imagine that would get better in time, and it would be the least of my concerns. Maybe I am just biased because I have met many women I have had great sex with, but only a few I really enjoyed spending time with. Anyway its all about whats important to the individual, and trust along with cerebral compatibility is my main concern when It comes to relationships, not sex.

 

I would not dump someone whose company I enjoyed simply because the sex was bad. I would probably either have a platonic relationship with them to enjoy their company and have a sexual relationship with the mind-blowing sex woman, or just be with the bad lover and try to keep the sex to a minimum and channel those urges into something else.

 

I've had great sex with people whom I've had no connection with but trust me, the sex only stays "great" for so long. Without compatibility, sex loses flavor. If I met someone great, but the sex was bad...I'd work with them. Chances are our sexual styles would begin to mesh after a few encounters together. Plus you know how some people get more attractive the more you get to know them? I think it might be the same with sex. Maybe it'd get better the more involved you became with that individual? I've never been faced with that situation, so I can only assume. Sexual chemistry is incredibly important in a relationship though, so I could see it potentially becoming a problem if we had two completely different styles.