I wonder if anyone else have these same thoughts

What I meant is that you don't like the answers WW give you when they say why they date only BM. What answers do you WANT? What IS acceptable?

 

maybe it isn't the answer as oppose to the mentality and or approach of the woman in question?

 

This is the part of Nice's post that I'm referring to. I, too, like BM because their skin feels better, I like their swag and style and how they carry themselves, etc. But he doesn't like those answers. So I'm asking, all things being equal between a BM and a WM as far as personality traits and qualities, and I prefer the BM, what reasons can I give that ARE acceptable?

 

Exactly...I am not looking for any particular answer...it is not my cup of tea

 

SirNice - I have never solely dated black men, nor do I see my self as exclusively dating black men now - in fact, I am not dating anyone, although I do hold the strongest affection toward the last long-term boyfriend that I had (of two years, who was black, who incidentally did not fit into the stereotypical black culture although he is in all respects dark black African American). I also dated another guy for a year or so (that I still speak to and love dearly) who didn't identify with traditional African American culture, whose dad was from Trinidad (African/East Indian and is one of my dearest friends today), and whose mom was Jewish, but everyone sees him as black - but his culture is not African American either.

I definitely identify with black people in a way that I can't describe, and hold a lot of affection for the African American community. However, I am very conscious of where I'm from - a Canadian with a father from Louisiana, and a mother from Canada, so I don't assume too much or try to take any culture upon myself. I most certainly would't try to "act black", although I have been known to be a bit of a cultural chameleon, since my family is from all over, and I have friends from ALL over, from everywhere in the world, and there are subtle differences that I adopt when speaking to every person that I meet.

Most definitely have dated almost every race of guy that you can think of. Just have an affecton for a certain few - most likely to be black simply because it's either white or black in this country due to religion. Indian guys (yes, I've dated an Indian guy) are stuck on religion and culture). Asian guys - I 've never dated one but have flirted with many but there is religion and culture to consider. White and black are more compatible in general.

 

No, I wouldn't. I've yet to see one single reasonable looking aboriginal man. I know that sounds bad, but despite the majority of the ones I've met being nice people, I think they're so far from attractive that I'd rather date another woman.
And yes, I consider them black. It depends on what part of the country they're from, but some of them are darker than my husband. Black is a colour, not a country or a culture.

 

So if you consider aboriginal people black....do you consider light skinned afroamerican people white?? Or are they black??? I guess there is miscommunication as generally when someone is described as black in the USA they mean the person is of African descent...I know that some countries like brazil people don't neceassarily describe people by race but by shades of complexion and will call people like Colin Powell as white....so maybe in Australia it is similar to this ....but no one in the US would call a dark skinned Indian black...his is interesting bc I have several cousins that are more fair than the average white person in the US and no one will call them white...just for the sake of curiosity. Would you date an attractive dark skinned Indian??? And for the sake of comedy, if black is just a color there you guys must have some amplified sun rays because it is rare I come across a BLACk as in color men....haha

 

The bit I bolded is just stupid and I'm not going to comment on that rubbish.

Not sure if I'd date an indian guy or not, I've never personally known any. Geezuz, do you think I only consider dating guys based on their colour? I'm extremely insulted by that.
I answered the thing about light skin in another thread already, and can't be bothered repeating myself in full, I'll just say again...Cultural background and skin colour are different, IMO.
You just sound like you're trying to start shit.

 

Cosign

 

Well I am just trying understand what you are saying...on one hand you say black is a color not a culture or country..then on the other hand you are insulted that that you date by color...I am still drawing a blank...in America black usually does define a culture not just color, contrary to you statements..so you r saying two different things...and it is true I havent seen too many black (as in color) men...I am not starting shyt, I am trying to understand what is a black man in your mind...after all this is a bm ww forum

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Yeah, I know what you mean. I'm part Filipino, and I'm always been wary of a lot of Anglo-Australian guys that just date Asian women. It's almost like they think 'we're all the same,' which is a bit offensive, or 'trading in one model for another,' - like Donald Trump and his blonde women! So, it's sort of like reducing partners to 'car models' or 'objects.' Me personally, I've had crushes on guys from all different ethnic backgrounds - but I go for personalities, more than anything else. I usually like guys who are in touch with their feminine side and are musical (eg. Keanu Reeves and LL Cool J) - not too many of those in Australia, they're way too butch and macho for my liking!

 

No one is stopping you from dating said women. If you're turned off from that type, keep it moving. I date BM exclusively and I don't fit your description. Those reasons the women that gave you why they date BM sound silly. I don't go around telling people why I date BM, but I've been asked a lot throughout my dating life as to why I do and I answer them with my own reasons. Yes, BM in the past could tell I was into them, but that hasn't happened in a while. Maybe it was the way I carried myself, dressed, how I'm built or just a vibe I gave off that gave them a green light. How come people have to analyze as to why someone dates one race exclusively? Why don't you question people who date only their race? You don't find anything odd about that? Of course not. This only comes up when it's WW and BM. No one questions why WM date AW. What about people who don't fit into one racial box? Who are they supposed to date? So if you don't date your race, you hate them? I date who I'm attracted to and that happens to be BM. I also love my culture and I'm proud of my heritage, but I can't help who my pheromones aim for.