I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase

Discussion in 'The Attraction Between White Women and Black Men' started by goodlove, Apr 9, 2010.

  1. fromrussiawithlove

    fromrussiawithlove New Member


    But what about the 'plus sized' women who can't move or walk? Being severely underweight isn't healthy, but being severely overweight isn't either!
    As long as it's not either extreme, it's all good!

    I personally prefer guys who are in shape. But I'm a small girl. Something like this would destroy me, and NOT in a good way :(
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  2. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    He never said obese, or even overweight.
     
  3. GFunk

    GFunk Well-Known Member

    Viscera used to scare the shit outta me, back in the day. Fool was a straight freak.
     
  4. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    French Elle recently did an issue with all plus size models. To me they are very attractive and don't look unhealthy. And I am a small person so not sticking up for larger girls for any reason other than beautiful people come in all sizes......

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    I think you should be comfortable liking who you like GL. ;)
     
  5. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    Im digging these babes yo. Thanks. Im gonna put the loving down on whom ever attracts me.
     
  6. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    it is sooo true. it is easy to be an ass over the net. I guess the true you comes out when you can not be confronted face to face
     
  7. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    There's a huge difference between this girl and the one before at least a good hundred pounds. They are not in the same league. This girl is thick the other one is a diabetic coma waiting to happen.
     
  8. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    LOL
     
  9. PinkMartini

    PinkMartini Guest

    I'm plus-sized, but not huge/obese. More like the girl on the ELLE cover, yet with less thigh. I'm still healthy though. I still go out and do things that most of my smaller friends can't do. Just because someone is skinny does not mean that they are healthy.

    Like beauty, being healthy can come in different sizes.

    I have two very close friends, who are similar in size. Me and one of them weigh the same, yet carry it differently. She is shorter than I so wears a bigger pant size. Our other friend weighs more, but is taller (like 6'-ish) but still wears the same size as me, just with a longer inseam. I wear the larger top, well, because I have the larger chest. T has larger hips, and K has a belly.

    T & K usually are never without boyfriends, because they have confidence. Which I lack(ed). We're all attracted to different types of men. I like black men, T will only be with white men, and K will only date white men but will do whatever with latin men.

    But I have noticed since I have started to 'embrace my curves' or whatever ya wanna call it, I have gotten more positive attention from men, though I still get negative attention from other females outside my circle of friends.

    Confidence is sexy no matter what size. Arrogance is not though.

    I’ve only dated one guy who was a bigger guy. Most of my ex’s were slim or had an athletic build. I could do more than most of them could. Guess that came from being a farm girl and having to do hard/heavy work and them being spoiled brats and not having to. Any type of work was choice for them (and still apparently is :roll:).

    But, to the ones who like the thick/chubby/chunky/plus-sizes or whatever you want to call them. Keep on liking them. I’m not complaining nor are my friends. :smt060
     
  10. NCBradin

    NCBradin New Member

    That's what I like about you!!! :eek:
     
  11. PinkMartini

    PinkMartini Guest

    :smt050 I figured it would be my classiness ....:smt043
     
  12. NCBradin

    NCBradin New Member

    I would SO date you in heartbeat. That's it! I'm drive down there in Florida! :cool:
     
  13. PinkMartini

    PinkMartini Guest

    :smt060
     
  14. AdventurSum

    AdventurSum New Member

    i guess for some it is that way, but i think it is more so that it is just accepted more these days. like it's ok to be a douche. i see people all the time with garbage ass negativity towards others, in person. like they're an edgy character from a sitcom or somethin. "no, you're just lame." lol
     
  15. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    True story brother.
     
  16. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    after i read this i remember lost :p.. can not wait to see the next episode

    offtopic:p
     
  17. The Dark King

    The Dark King Well-Known Member

    Lmao. Omg I love that show even though its been kind of slow this season. Outside of the Richard episode it has kind of sucked.
     
  18. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    I enjoy this season a lot like all the rest ..

    ok now back to the topic i just had to say that before :p
     
  19. goodlove

    goodlove New Member

    I just believe in people being healthy and if they can lose the weight cool but dont be all bent out of shape if you are not a size 3.
     
  20. Stheno

    Stheno New Member

    but goodlove, i never put down if someone is over weight or that's what most think it is over weight ..i have no problem if they are happy with how people look ...and said too many time some actualy look better with a little more weight on them ..

    just i hate when people see someone very thing think he/she is unhealthy .. i know many are and try to be thin and are unhealthy same as over weight..

    there is big problem on both sides ..

    but if you worry about your weight and you not happy better then it is not healthy either.. best to loose or put weight..

    i am trying this days to stay on the same weight i am reason is i dont do much first because i dont exersice and second i had a surgery and i dont move a lot and cant do much until 6 weeks... not because i worry about going more on weight but go in wrong places..

    and goodlove like who you want and the world will be boring place if we all like the same.. or we all be on the same kilos or same shape..
     

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