I will admit I have and will continue to chubby chase

...You date fat chicks don't you?

 

You missed my point didn't you?

In any event, I'm not attracted to big women.........but if a cat like big women, and he likes big white women. hey so be it. If that is what the brutha likes, that is what that brutha likes. FUCK dating standards...

..truth be known the Negro needs to up grade a lot more important standards than the weight of the woman's he's dating.

 

Then how would that explain all the different kind of white women that are attracted to black guys, surely they aren't all fat.

This is why I can't get worked up about this, because I have seen black men with all kinds of white women. I've seen white men with fat white women as well.

I understand what you are saying about "SOME" brothas needing standards, but all you can do is you. Black men have been laced with stereotypes and I don't check for them because they don't apply to me in my personal life, values and morals. So those who speak about said stereotypes are just whistling Dixie. A confident man will handle his and not worry about others ignorance.

 

And you're missing my point as well. Look, all black men can agree that we are judged on the whole not as individuals. Wht one black guy does reflects on the rest of us because racist white america views us as one entity. It's why we get pissed when we see a police report on tv and the perp turns out to be black. Or how i yell at black kids on the subway who curse and act a fool. If we can be critical of that, why can't be critical of how some brothas chubby chase? Shit ain't doing me no favors.

 

When I said lower/higher end I was referring to more than just body type, I was referring to attitude, personality, etc. Given the example you gave, I could still apply what I said, Heather comes off like she has manners, good personality, etc (high end). and Lisa Lampanelli is loud, unlady like, lacking in manners, etc (low end).

 

SMH, That is the best you have brotha.

Come on with more than that already.

This had nothing to do with fat or skinny, it had to do with recognizing that some white dude and what he has to say about interracial relationships between black men and white women is not to be viewed credibly because just look at the reaction to interracial dating.

You said it yourself you walked in the bar with a fine white girl and the white dudes were staring.

That is what's up, it is the very idea of black/white that gets to them and makes them run their mouth foolishly. Bigoted people will say the darnedest things. Pure chatterboxes of regurgitated stereotypes. How much credibility can someone like that be given.

 

Please, they already think we take their leftovers and trash. So when you actually showup with a good looking white woman, they really get mad. Look at Lisa Lampanelli's whole schtick, hwite guys find her funny because they believe thats the type of white women we attract. I hate that bitches guts.

They don't care if we're dating those kinds of women, what they do care is when guys like Sam Jones III is dating his hot gf. then you see the hate pour in.

 

And you know what that is called "IGNORANCE"

Black men don't walk, talk the same, we don't all like the same kind of women, some are educated, some are thugs, some pull our pants up some don't.

That we are viewed as one entity says it all and attests to what I'm saying about not giving credibility to that kind of mentality, some white dude that is already bitter anyway about seeing a white woman who would dare to be with a black man, so she must be fat or white trash or low class or some other stereotype, it can't just be love.

Read between the lines brotha, its not just about fat or skinny, its the idea, look at the history of what happened to black men in this country for even looking at white women and you will see what's up.

The mental is more powerful than the physical stereotypes that the bigots manifest, when they open up their mouths.

If you are a confident, proud, assertive black man you have no reason to sweat that.

 

Agreed, GQ Brotha.

Look, to tell someone they need standards is ignorant. Some people, both black and white, are attracted to overweight people. Maybe their "standard" is that they don't want to date thin people! Imagine that!

It's tough to be an overweight woman -- I used to be one. You don't get much attention from guys of any race. So yes, you may well snap up the first guy to come along but he could be of any race. When I did get attention from guys, it was by no means only black guys. Plenty of white guys are "chubby chasers."

Can't we spend our time worrying about much bigger problems than this? No pun intended.

 

When you are with a white woman, you honestly care what a white guy thinks.

Man you are feeding right into them.

Lets see black men date fat white women, low class white women, she has daddy issues, she is doing it to get back at the white man, she is a liberal and feels sorry for the wrongs of the past, she thinks he is an accessory and its cool because of the Jewish media and the list can go on and on.

You would do very well my brotha to not care one iota what a white dude thinks, you should let that be his problem to rationalize in his own mind.

Ask yourself this why would a white guy feel compelled to talk about a fat white woman and black men, when they fully well know all kinds of white women date black men, just look around us in everyday life.

They do care when a black man is dating a white woman, or else they would never make such comments, they would not even think about it, but it comes into their minds because it affects them because of the nature of the relationship and history.

I don't talk about black women with white men and you know why I don't care about it, because it doesn't mater to me. I'm not checking for either one so I don't need to stress it or make lame commentaries.

There are black guys dating hot white women all over, so ask yourself this why do they focus on the "fat white woman" angle, because it is what they have left to be negative and off putting in behavior about.

Its easy fodder to appease their ego. I don't think one truly can undesrtand the idea of a white woman appreciating a black man over a white man in society, given the way black men are often stereotyped and what that means to an insecure white man. A white dude to your face will make those kind of subtle cheeky commentaries, if any at all, but nothing overt. They save that for behind closed doors and among themselves.

Keep doing you brotha and say fuck the ignorance.

 

Of course you can share my opinion. I was just messing with you about the "NEXT" thing because U have no idea about the fights there were around here about this topic
And believe me, I'm seeing more black men with thin women than white ones lately.

And I actually have been 60lbs lighter (wich looks kinds unhealty on me) and I've been "fucking" with black dudes anyways, hunny

Why can't you people just think that maybe some of us just like you? When I had my first black boyfriend do you think I had any idea about the stupid "standard" thing you guys had going on in the US? Who da fuck cared bout that? LOL
And LOL at you thinking that we are white men's trash. Oh baby, you really don't know

 

Babe, you always make so much sense. I agree with what you said.

Who said we were pretending. Listen, maybe we have different views on what a big girl is. Big girl isn't TALL. There's a difference. Even though in the last pic she has some more chubbiness compared to the other pics, how can you say she's big? In the first pics you can even see the abs. Come on. Nothing is all black or white. BIG are the girls in the BBW thread for me. There are many shades of "chubbiness" between being slander and obese.
I guess it's just personal.

haha babe, I'm not chubby, I'm obese according to these dudes, but u know what, I never had one single man complaining about my obesity in the right moments

I need to have a look at the DSM IV to see what all this might mean...

We accept your opinion, it's just that maybe you should hang out with a sign on your forehead that says "no nasty fat white chicks" so you would be happy? Just an advice.

 

Never said i thought you wer're white men's trash. I SAID THATS WHAT WHITE MEN THINK.

 

hey, don't try to turn the omelette upside down now LOL

 

(Pardon for my spelling)
Well like you all said, everybody has different oppinons on what is big/fat/obese.
I consider myself being quite overweight but I pull it off. I like my body and only wanna lose weight to be able to move around better and be more healthier.

I been with white men up until I was 20. Then met I black guy and after that I'm mostly drawn to bm. And it has nothing to do with my weight...I can still get white men aswell. I like how bm is more forward and not shy, they go after what they want.

We all like what we like and how would the world be if we all liked the same things....BOOORING.

Well I can only speak for myself but what ever happen to personality? Looks is one thing but it's nothing if you are an ashole!

 

And this is why I cannot take seriously and with any credibility an outsider commenting on someone's personal relationship that they know nothing about.

Black Men/White Women relationships always have to be laced with stereotypes and analyzed to infinite proportions. There always has to be an underlying condition.

Do people spend this much time on analyzing White men/Asian women, White men/black women, Asian men/white women, etc, etc.

Something about the nature of a white woman and black man really gets folks talking and seeking reasons for it.

I imagine its part of the American cultural history that plays into that mindset here in America.

It just seems to me that people need to learn respect and how to mind their own business, and not come out of their face about the relationship of people they know nothing about, which leads to the formulation of ignorant, stereotypical and uninformed opinions.

Its simple for me I'm black and I like white women that simple. No mystery or hidden reasons in that. Its what I am interested in.

 

Agreed on the surface but there are some common traits that bind us as a group. And he, you, and I all generalize. "You must like fat women" was a weak argument and so is "you can't say all"

 

Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss. I'm a member of an Asian message board and they talk about the same shit

They talk about the same shit on black board. This topic is not unique to black men liking whit women.

I agree with one thing you said. The whole idea that "White women that no white man would want are the only ones that date black men" is fucking STUPID.

No ignorant

STUPID.

And not supported by anything other than the bruthaz silly personal observation. Really just doesn't support this at all.

 

And you know why some white men say that, because of their own bitterness and bruised manhood that a white woman would want a black man over them. That is usually when they will blurt out all the little stereotypical cliches like a fountain of sewage. Think for a second about why they do that. :smt115

How does someone know that someone is trash if they don't even know that person who is just walking down the street in everyday life.

You focus way too much on what white men think brotha. When I'm with a white girl I don't focus on what some strange white man thinks, free country, he can think about whatever he wants, that's his condition to deal with internally, may it eat him up if he can't get over it.

If you are a strong black man that is doing the right things and loving your woman then that is what its about, not what some irrelevant individual thinks.

It takes a miserable and bitter person to worry about the personal lives of others, nothing positive can be gained from that.