"I only date black men" is a lie?

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by kenny_g, Mar 8, 2008.

  1. Kindle

    Kindle New Member

    I've never actually met any WW in real life that ever said "I only date BM"
     
  2. Be-you-tiful86

    Be-you-tiful86 Well-Known Member


    I am on Blackplanet.com

    Out of European countries German women build the biggest group on that site with over 3500 last time I checked.
    I own a few groups there.One epecially for German women so I check from time to time to invite potential members:)
    Followed by England.Many English ladies on BP as well. :)
    And quite a few interracial groups where everyone who dates IR can come together and discuss.
    Some of those group deal especially with the attraction between white women and black men or conversely
     
  3. Kindle

    Kindle New Member

    The commonality of AM/WF depends on where you live. Here in NYC I see them on a daily basis. In fact, according to this statistics AM/WF is even more common than WM/BF couples. Of course you'll never hear about it because it's not as taboo as BM/WF.
     
  4. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

    Neither have I and would find it strange. A white woman who said, "I only date white men" would be equally strange to me.
     
  5. Kindle

    Kindle New Member

    What about if a black women said "I only date black men" would that be strange? Because I don't really find it strange for preferring your own race.
     
  6. satyricon

    satyricon Guest

    If by race you mean humanity, then there is nothing strange about that.

    By staying within the exclusive confines of their group, I think people do a better job of reflecting social expectation than they do of their own authenticity.

    I am naturally attracted to women, but nature stops there and all bets are off from that point forward. I think that if we were more honest with ourselves, we'd all realize the same truth within ourselves.
     
  7. Kindle

    Kindle New Member

    I'm surprised that you even saw ANY Asian/White couples considering that there's like almost no Asians in Dallas.
     
  8. Kindle

    Kindle New Member

    I'm not quite understanding you. Are you saying it's ok for black women to only date black men but not ok for white women to only date white men?
     
  9. Soulthinker

    Soulthinker Well-Known Member

    Byt86,I learn something everyday.
     
  10. stiletoes

    stiletoes Well-Known Member

    Anyone can lie. I dated both black and white men before I was married. Married a Latino man, divorced him after 20 years, now I DO only date black men. At my age, I am going for what I want and FUCK what society says.
     
  11. Othello1967

    Othello1967 Active Member

    Not necessarily. They just prefer to date BM.
     

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