I met a beautiful Russian Girl via a dating website. and she really took a liking to me. the problem is that she is 26 and i'm 21. She sent me pictures and everything. and really wants to meet me. she is really beautiful. I am a nervous. She is willing to travel from russia to meet me. I need help I want to meet her to but she is 5 years older than me.
Fortunately your solution is easy: Don't worry about it! She will probably be glad to be with a younger man and his vitality. As with athletic performance, male sexual performance is highest at your age. You can rock her world longer and better than if she were dating a guy in his 30's. It's like the energizer bunny commercials. But seriously, be wary of meeting Russians girls over websites. I'm not saying your girl is a scammer. But there are alot that are. They will work you for money and leave you hanging. Usually they ask for you to wire them money for a plane ticket, or visa application or something. They you never hear from them again. Go ahead and persue this girl if you feel it is legit, but just be cautious if and when money starts being discussed.
I wouldn't worry about the age difference at all. She knows you're 21 right? If you I would tell her before she comes all the way here. 5 years it not that much of a difference. Although, I'm 27 and would not date a 21 year old in a serious way and that is just because of maturity. Most 21 year old men don't have the same mind set as a 27 year old woman. It depends on the person but I wouldn't even sweat it at all. Like hearts said though, be careful. I've heard some bad things about meeting people from another country on the internet too. Just watch out.
I wrote to someone who I thought was a Russian woman several years ago. I would send email, then she respond. I really didn't thought about the scams going on since at the time, there was no talk of that happening. I did get a little quizzical with here responses, I felt she didn't bother reading what I said. Also, she said she instantly fell in love with me. This started when that person found a profile I posted on an online site, which I later deleted. Right after she asked for money so she can come to the US, the dating site wrote me about the person and deleted her profile and account, warning me that this is likely a scammer only after my money. I stay away from Russian women since then.
sadly it turns out she was a scammer. the name she said it wasn't her name. got a email from a russian scammer service. I'll meet a good woman " in person"
That sounds much better. Meet one in person. I know a lot of people use dating sites and such but I'm super leary of people I don't see in person. There is so much to a persons body language that you don't get on line. I'm sorry she turned out bad. Just give it time, you'll meet someone. You are still young!