I have a confession

i find that to be quite rediculous. Why, if a woman (or man) is not a virgin, should she put out immediately? I know you said "personally" but I find it disturbing that people think like that.

if you and I met, and it was that much of a problem to you, you would miss out on a really good thing (me) because of that rule...

Unless you value a girl that puts out so easily, then maybe I wouldn't be such a great thing for you...to each his own, I guess...

I'm just offering another point of view to the reader's of this thread.

 

Thank you for the replies. I'll admit I was thinking maybe I better not post anymore after a few of the replies.

To answer the question of was I always attracted to BM?

I ride horses and when I was a high schooler I was taught by a BM. He was very nice, handsome and I was a little attracted to him. After my divorce, I was doing the online thing and met someone I liked and as my girlfriend told me why let race stop you. If he's a good guy and you like him go for it. So I did. Now, I honestly don't care what race someone is. I would go out with a BM again. I live just outside of DC and it's hard to find many single men in general here. Which is partially why I have not had a boyfriend since my ex. The other reason is just about all my girlfriends have a significant other so I don't have anyone to really get out there with.

I didn't think people dated other people for money, influence or such much. That kind of bothers me and if someone is worthwhile they won't just jump into bed with you at first. I am always honest as to what my boundaries are as in I will kiss you if the moment is right and be affectionate as in hugging and being close to you, but I won't jump into bed with anyone until after a few weeks ie 3-4 to see if there's anything there.

 

Jenn I live in the DC area, I can show you some nice spots where you can meet some good men.