I don't see how yall date....

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Ymra, Jan 20, 2011.

  1. GQ Brotha

    GQ Brotha New Member



    Fully agree, I never could do that, it would do nothing for me to be shagging an inebriated woman. :)

    Something about it I just don't find kosher.
     
  2. JordanC

    JordanC Well-Known Member

    It ended well but...........why are you putting yourself in this situation?? You might be asking for trouble.
     
  3. Vamber

    Vamber New Member

    I would have said Thank You

    the next morning so please don't lump All women in the "mind of a female". ;)
     
  4. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    The next morning?

    As to the rest of your post, let me take this prime opportunity to educate you.

    I was generliazing

    gen·er·al·izedgen·er·al·iz·ing
    Definition of GENERALIZE

    transitive verb
    1. : to give a general form to
    2. : to derive or induce (a general conception or principle) from particulars
    3. : to draw a general conclusion from
    4. : to give general applicability to <generalize a law>; also : to make indefinite

      intransitive verb
    5. : to form generalizations; also : to make vague or indefinite statements
    6. : to spread or extend throughout the body
      — gen·er·al·iz·abil·i·ty noun
      — gen·er·al·iz·able adjective
      — gen·er·al·iz·er noun

    got sit down some place.....please.
     
  5. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Its 12am, we hung out again tonight. I think we have a better understanding that I'm not trying to "get them draws".........for now.
     
  6. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Don't be a turd, Ymra...she wasn't talking trash. She simply pointed out that she would've behaved diffrently than the idiot that stayed at your place that night. That's why she headed her post "I would have said Thank You"...in other words, she got where you were coming from. :cool:
     
  7. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    "You can't say all" always make me give person the side-eye. Or break out in snippets of "no shit sherlock"

    I'm flying back to Maryland to keep on keeping on...there is still something there.

    ..but I did go to ole girls house last night. Very comfortable time. Watched some old "Buffy" and drank some "American Honey" (I love that by the way)...hopped in my car and came back to the pad.
     
  8. Complex

    Complex New Member

    You led her on. Her rebuttal is challenging your manhood in hopes of you to follow suit.

    Cheers!
     
  9. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    How did I lead her on.

    I was fully clothed
    I slept on the floor (in a sleeping bag)
    I was really trying to make sure she didn't hop back in a car and drive home, and I was in no real position to drive.
     
  10. Complex

    Complex New Member

    A girl does not go to your home, late in the evening, gets intoxicated, without a reason.

    You could of easily called a cab so she could get home safely. Instead, you took it upon yourself for her to sleep over, in your bed, in which she agreed.

    She was so drunk to wake you up, four in the morning, to chitchat in which you brushed her off. Had she been drunk, she would not use derogatory statements a few days later, trying to ignite your testosterone. She would not have said a word.

    I can assure you, when it happens again, if you decline, she will be gone… for good.

    The choice is yours.

    Cheers!
     
  11. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    She actually got drunk at the club....I think she was embarrassed and too prideful to admit that she let the alcohol get the better of her good judgment. And I don't want to young lady to be gone, I simply don't want/didn't want sex with her.....at that specific moment.

    The choice is mine? Noooooooooooooooo.....you don't say. Amazing.
     
  12. Complex

    Complex New Member

    It may be best to say,

    "I did not want to take advantage of you in your current state for...."

    I would imagine you can fill in the blanks after "for" with the sweet nothings to win over her heart.

    She was not too embarrassed to go to your home in her current state, yet she was embarrassed to admit that she had too much alcohol?

    Matters are worse that you were in a club?

    Come on Mate, this is the typical club scenario. I take it you are not a raver?

    Cheers!
     
    Last edited: Jan 21, 2011
  13. Max Mosley

    Max Mosley Well-Known Member

    :smt043
     
  14. Bliss

    Bliss Well-Known Member

    Aren't you married? or am I missing something to the story here?
     
  15. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Well, we all went out to tie one on......meh. I simply thought I was being a stand up guy.
     
  16. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    1. I am married
    2. You are missing something.
     
  17. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    Yeah, I get where you're coming from, but I don't think she meant any harm...she just didn't word it very well.

    I'm glad to hear you're flying back...good for you.

    That's good...it sounds like ol' girl's issue must have just been the booze.
     
  18. Complex

    Complex New Member

    There is absolutely nothing wrong being a Gentleman.

    Some girls like it while others do not. Then, there are some girls that like it within reason.

    Do keep that in mind.

    Cheers!
     
  19. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Had a good conversation last night, so on a whim I bought a plane ticket. I wasn't supposed to fly back until my baby girls birthday but hey.

    Which is good...cuz this "going out" shit is for the damn birds. Its hard to sit across the table looking a woman and listen to her babble about............Her ex's (no matter what bring up the topic a woman can find a way to bring up her ex) or this star, or that star, (most of which I don' t know do I care about), blah blah blah...

    ...where is the chick that is pleasing to the eye

    ...like motorcycles

    ...like XBOx

    ...will take my mind off reality, one I can stand. Who knows that Captain Marvel is DC and Ms Marvel is from Marvel. And that the new bat man movies does not show Bruce Wayne correctly....Christian Bale is too damn short, and Bruce Wayne was fucking DIESEL 6'2 210lbs, 15% body fat.

    ...someone who knows the difference between an M16 and an M4

    ...knows that Dragon Ball and Dragon Ball Z are not the same, and that there was never a Dragon Ball Turbo....

    ...AND who knows how to slow dance...(the way we do in Kentucky)...that's all I'm asking.

    ...that's allll I'm asking.
     
  20. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    I've been schooled.

    LOL...and every-time I read a word that you write my mind attaches the smug british accent, and I want to punch in the throat. But that's my own American prejudice.
     
    Last edited: Jan 21, 2011

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