I don't see how yall date....

Discussion in 'Conversations Between White Women and Black Men' started by Ymra, Jan 20, 2011.

  1. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    (read between the lines) So yeah..its me, bitching about Little Rock again. So I go out on a date...errr...an outing. Not even sure if you can call it a date. So we come back to the "Pad" and she's had a bit too much to drink I suggest that she sleep in my bed. You don't want to send anyone off when you know that can't drive and I was in no position to drive (My roomates new, new chick drove)

    I threw on some new sheets, grabbed my handy dandy U.S. Army issued sleeping bag, fully clothed and crashed on the floor. Now the entire night I didn't do shit but crash on the floor. Couple of reasons really.

    1. I do TRY to be an honorable man.
    2. There are few things worse in life than trying to bang a drunk chick

    In any event around about 4am she wakes up (still drunk) and wants to TALK. it is rare that I get fucked up but I wasn't feeling no pain, all I wanted to do was get my sleep on. You know that strange point between being fucked up and being sobber....It was RIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIGHT there.

    Well....

    ...man

    ...woman

    ...bed

    I guess she had some thoughts.

    And I stopped it. COLD

    ....I could have been a dog ass cat and just fucked the hell out of her. I told her flat out, "This is not going to happen". She calls me a few minutes ago and accused me of "setting it up" so she could fall in love with me. Called me "Gay" and a "Bitch"

    HUH?

    I swear I for one will NEVER understand women.............ever.
     
  2. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Write her of as sexually frustrated, childish and crazy.

    And good for you btw!
     
  3. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    this shit is for the damn birds.
     
  4. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    As I said, write her off:)
     
  5. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    Fly to Little Rock.....:)
     
  6. archangel

    archangel Well-Known Member

    Yea, I wouldn't have let her sleep in the bed. on the floor or on the couch! That way no signals are sent.
     
  7. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    How can signals get mixed if I'm crashed on the floor. Who makes a woman sleep on the floor?
     
  8. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    After your description of the place.. I think I pass.
    Sorry.
    I meet you you in Paris:)
     
  9. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    darnit! I used to have a small whole in the wall I stayed in right off of Delessert boulevard. You could see the Eiffel from my window. U.S. Marine Corps paid me over 5,000 a month to stay there...

    ...ahh the memories.
     
  10. FG

    FG Well-Known Member

    Are you serious???
    WOW!!
    Im so jealous!
    Do you have some pics??
     
  11. satyr

    satyr New Member

    Flip the script and place a man inside of a woman's apartment after spending the evening together, would he be incorrect to believe there might some romantic or sexual undertones present?

    She shouldn't have been there in the first place, and women aren't difficult to understand at all. :)

     
  12. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    gawwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwd I wish. The reason why I take some many pictures now is after I got sick I woke up one day thinking I'm going to die and realized I had nothing to show for all of the places around the world I have been.

    Now I take pictures of everything.
     
  13. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    I don't know man. I have crashed on the floor, or women's couches.....I guess I am just very cautious,...or dimwitted.
     
  14. lilhawk624

    lilhawk624 Member

    Its not easy being a Gentleman, or even trying to be.
    Mad props bruh, good job.
     
  15. Ms. J

    Ms. J Well-Known Member

    takes real strength & will power to do the right thing; especially when not doing the right thing is so damn easy...hang in there man
     
  16. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I'm glad you did the right thing by not giving in to your horny state of being when it would've been so easy to do so; it's never worth it.

    It wasn't the wisest choice to allow her to stay at your place...especially in your bed. It should've been no surprise that she expected to get some or that she was upset when you said no. Most people would've been thinking the same thing she was.

    Next time you'll know that the best option is to make sure a drunk woman, who you have no intention of getting busy with, finds a way to her own home/bed instead of yours. ;)
     
  17. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    This is hard to do. I am a Soldier and turning our backs it just not in our make up. It really was trouble for me, I just don't understand it. If I was some cruddy mutha fukka wll would be good.

    ...the mind of a female.
     
  18. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member

    I know it's hard to leave people hanging when they need help; I'm the same way. She sounded like one of those stupid women who think their worth is in their body or what they can do with it, an opportunist, or maybe she was just a drunk, lonley fool...there's no telling. Whatever it was, she crossed the line evidently thinking you were the typical male who'd give in to the situation. That's why you can never be too careful.
     
  19. Ymra

    Ymra New Member

    I dig what you are putting down. I'm tellin' you there was a time with big Ymra was a panty chaser. Wooooo I actually sat down one day and made of list of all the women I have *cough* known.

    ...at one time I even got tired of the boo-tay (yes its possible). Ass is just not that important to me at all. Right now I'm still holding on to something and hopin' I will soon be back where I belong.
     
  20. Tamstrong

    Tamstrong Administrator Staff Member


    Yeah, the panty chasing phase is pretty typical. lol

    Aww...I hope the time flies by so you can get back to your family soon. Stay strong, Ymra :smt056
     

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