how to know

are you also a bit confused...
the signals between between a man and a woman can be a bit tricky to understand and read
life was more easier , when you are young

I remember when I was 8 all it take was to ask , can I have a chance on you either you were a boy or girl.

As a adult it is not equal easy ( though I wish it was) to day you need to be a professor in the body-language to be able to figure out what men ( or women) mean..
Then we come to the fact that men are smooth talker and know exactly how to sweep us off once in while.. either they just want to come inside our clothes or want a longer term of relation

it doesn't matter what the agenda is .... they use the same system and signals

it is the continuation that follows can be tricky to figure out, what he actually want ...

you know as a woman probably what you want if you just want to flirt or you are open for Mr right.

So picture your self that you are not ready for a steady relation you want to play and have some fun ....
you are social and open and fun, you are hot and all ...
and you tell the guy lets have fun and just enjoy is it not so that men have

the guy seem to want more than you wish because suddenly
she is not interested in anything more than a flirt . so It seems that hunting instinct comes alive. He do not want to go .
He realise that he must have her , so now the crazy stuff happens ..he do all kind of things to prove that he love her and he need her and so on.

like for an example , I had a guy that I just had a nice period of time with
and I told him that I was not ready, we had wonderful time and great sex,
he start to tell me that he loved me and he wanted me. and so on after a while he started to become jealous and act funny .. so i told him it was over. he start to stand outside my window at night and call my name. calling my phone and so on
all that happens just because his hunting instinct as waken up.

If it would have been vice versa he would have put on his shoes and run as fast he could away .. and told me that he was not ready..


so actually it is a miracle that we succeed to catch a partner in life if we have all that in mind

just because the signals is hard to read sometimes
with the time we women get to know the signals men use and some of us are more skilful than some.
so i come to that conclusion that its actually a miracle that we succeed to end up as couple
Though I thank God for the men especially men with colour..

and with time I hope I have become better in reading the men and their signals and smooth talking to know when a man just want to play and have a nice time in and outside bed , and when men want more ..

 

Even at my age, I still do not know what a woman wants when she sends out a signal. I am a little more direct. I could see a signal for a friend but I cannot see for me. Perhaps, I am not interested in her in that way. But, then again, it is a game. If one plays the game and understands the game(there are no rules), the winner will be rewarded. But, I do not go into meeting people like it is a game. I accept a person as I find them. It is up to them to decide if they want to continue the conversation. It is the same with myself.

 

Welcome to the site. It is nice someone from Sweden to come to the site. Hope to read more things from you from the threads soon.

 

Are you from Stockholm or Goteborg?

 

am from stockholm

 

thank you , I wiill prob write more things ..

 

Its a game , I know . though sometimes I wonder why we need to make things so complicated.

when it actually a bit simple . boy meets girl they like each other why not say i like you do you want to play and what shall we play..

though in the same time the game in it self are pretty interesting I have to admit that ..
and I have had a lot of interesting games on that field
sometimes I end up totally confused or sometimes it is vice versa.

 

I had been to Stockholm years back. Wonderful city. Hope you had like the new ABBA museum.

 

I love ABBA. I also love to see Vilgot Sjoman films.

 

AIK eller Djurgarden?

Lol

Jag e fodd och uppvuxen pa Ostermalm, men har bott en del i Solna o Sumpan innan jag flyttade hit.

 

ABBA????!!!!

Did someone mention ABBA?????



Goes off to play my 45's

 

Yes,Tarsh I said ABBA. The museum has finally opened in Stockholm months back.

 

I have not visit the ABBA museum though but I will as soon as Its time for it ..

 

I hope you will visit us again , and if you do hit me up i will take you around if you want

 

när jag var yngre höll jag på djurgården bara för att alla andra höll på HAMMARBY eller AIK.
jag tycker förstås bättre om södermalm lol

 

Tack,I will make sure to make the trip to Stockholm.

 

Had you been to a website called www.whoa.nu? It has mentioned hip-hop music and other forms of Black music.

 

Tarshi,here is one like from one of the Sydney newspapers:http://www.smh.com/travel/thank-you-for-the-museum-2nrzh.html
Google the rest from other Oz papers.

 

no i have not but , will definitely make that visit on the site

 

its a swedish site, thanks i will discover a new site .

at the moment I listen a lot on African music and their modern music of to day .. I am sure you have heard about their some of them even collaborates
with well known artist like Akon and so on ..