How much wieght does sexual attraction carry..

You are absolutely right on target Miss Kiki! For me if there's no physical attraction, then the relationship won't work. Now there must always be a balance though. Lets say the woman of interest is gorgeous and great in the sack. Now in order to maintain anything beyond that then she must be "well-rounded." Examples would be she's intelligent, goal-oriented, optimist, independent, caring, considerate, etc... I do believe that you can find anyone that your heart desires even though at times it doesn't seem that way. Happy dating everyone

 

For me, I have to be physically attracted to someone if I'm going to date a person.
If you're with someone who has a great personality but you're not physically attracted to that person and have no desire to touch or kiss that person then there's no point in having a relationship.
So yes sexual attraction is definitely important.

 

Damn girl I thought space aliens came and took you away!!!
I'm one of your fans from back in the day but posting under a new name now.

Good to see you're still on earth.

Although I'm sure you'll disappear again..... :cry:

 

another BOT!


Sexual attraction is the key. When a guy likes a girl but she sees him as "just a friend," or puts him in "the friend zone," that's an indirect way of saying she's not sexually attracted to him.

Some guys think cuz they have a good job, are nice, polite, respectful, etc etc etc then they are a good man and women should want them.

Yeah, they'll want them as a friend ONLY if there's no physical attraction.

Can't forget about that sex appeal!

 

+1

 

If I dont have sexual attraction, I wont date you.
I must have chemistry.
Having that said - sexual attraction is not nessesarily tied to good looks or muscly body.
Sometimes you are not even sure what it is - its just the undefinable "it" some people possess.

I find Kenan Thompson incredibly sexy, like I said a gazzillion times

oh and also:
I dont believe that just because you must find somebody sexually attractive - doesnt mean the relationship is based on sex.

If you cant back up the sexual attraction with other essential parts needed for a relationship.. I wont date you either. However sometimes it might take a bit longer to discover those things.. ..

 

I think I'm just gonna follow you around and cosign all your posts FG. You're saving me a lot of time by expressing my thoughts. Pretty please don't report me for stalking.

 

LOL, who am I gonna report you to?? You???
That would be fun!

Thanks for the sweet compliment - you know I feel the same way about you.. I just look at what you posted and say "never mind, taken care of"

 

Sexual Attraction Connects two, Commitment, Endurance, Love, Respect, and Understanding Keep it together

 

:smt043 Thank you darling, I do that same with you.

 

You're gonna have to report me too then because I totally agree. I've met some super hot guys who should be perfect but if there's not that "spark" then it doesn't work. It's annoying sometimes. Then you'll meet someone who on paper is less perfect but BAM there's chemistry. :smt055

 

Commitment, Endurance, Love, Respect, and Understanding = platonic relationship

Sexual Attraction, Commitment, Endurance, Love, Respect, and Understanding = romantic relationship

 

Ummm...that is kind of the point. Like I said, to get to the connection point you need sexual attraction you need the rest as well to maintain it. I thought I made that clear. Oh well.

 

Sexual attraction carries a lot of weight with me, as I think it would with just about everyone.

I can't be in a relationship without it. And it can go away, if the person turns into a jerk. That happened with my ex. I was so sexually attracted to him for years. Then he became a completely different person, and not in a good way, and poof, the attraction to him was gone.

So, I guess that would mean that sexual attraction goes hand in hand with personality and all the rest of it. If he's ugly on the inside, no matter how he looks on the outside, he'll be be ugly to me.

 

Absolutely Bookie! It's a package deal, sexual attraction alone won't carry a relationship, just as lack of can ruin one.

 

I'm sorry Bookie.

 

Nothing to be sorry about. I've made my peace with it. What's done is done. I'm happy my little one and I came out of it relatively unscathed. :smt023

 

As long as you and that little girl are alright, all is good.

 

Yeesh, that sucks. Yeah I can definitely see where you are coming from with that. As many others seem to mention, sexual attraction usually seems to be very important, but for me it's not always. Like I have this female friend in Norway, by every means she's gorgeous. She's was recently modeling in a magazine in which I was very proud of her for. She invited me to come down to visit so I'm definitely doing my own Eurotrip, she likes hip hop, speaks excellent english, but my friends are shocked that I'm not planning on taking it further. So I don't know, by every means she's definitely attractive, so I guess the attraction is there, but for me it appears to be not enough to establish that kind of relationship.

 

I don't proceed past a friendship unless I'm attracted.

Like LS said, I need that spark and I need to have that feeling like I want to jump his bones and get those pheromones going....