How much does character and attitude factor into dating IR?

I was just wondering, but how much does character and attitude really factor into the race of person you're dating? I'm starting to realize that a large part of which race of woman i choose to focus on has a little something to do with character and attitude, moreso than even looks sometimes. For instance, speaking from my own personal perspective, i find that latin women tend to rate very high in the loyalty department, which is definitely attractive to me because i'm the same way. I also find that some of the white or caucasian girls rate pretty high in the friendly/sweetness department, which in turn, attracts me more to them because i like those things.

Of course, there are plenty of white and latin women who aren't anything like that whatsoever, probably even the total opposite, but from you guys' own life perspectives, do you have similar beliefs about the fact that character and attitude and race can potentially go hand in hand with each other, which in turn is part of the reason why you eventually chose to date/marry interracially? Or is this logic totally false and unjustified in your opinions? And if the character and attitude does play a small or even large part in your decisions to date IR, does it also play a role in the hierarchy or order in which you date IR?

For instance, do you find certain character/attitude traits in latin women that makes you prefer them over say, white women or vice versa? I heard someone say it before about white men and why they're choosing to date more and more asian women, because of the fact that they find certain character and attitude traits about asian women to be more appealing. I don't know if any of this is true or not, so i'm asking you guys what you think about the entire subject. I just find it to be really interesting how much of a factor character and attitude really does play into who we choose as our partners.

 

Hey Bryant, I've come to the conclusion that people are people no matter what race they are. Some are loyal, funny, smart, and kind, while others are the total opposite. It is true the BM i have dated have treated me better than any WM i was with, but I don't know if that's because they are black, or because i made some good picks. i would say character and attitude have everything to do with how I choose a man, since I am incapable of judging him by his looks. But inside, where it counts, there are no distinctions of race and colour.

 

I'm not going to generalize about a race and their qualities, but I will agree that the character of a person has a great deal to do with if I am interested in dating a guy or not.

 

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